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Homosexuality is a sin, get over it...

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For example most postmodern christians can't accept the biblical concept of loving the sinner but hating the sin...this is the issue with homosexuality.

I really am coming to hate this phrase, for one single reason.

Here it is in another guise; "I am not a racist, but ... "

So with "Love the sinner, but ... "

Where does anyone get this 'but' from? God does not have a 'but' in his love for us, and neither does Christ. When he meets Zaccheus and says, I am going to have dinner with you tonight, he does not say, but you must serve Lasagna or else I won't come. He says, I will be there.

God meets us, where we are. No buts.

It is our response to his love, unconditionally given, that convicts us that we are unworthy to receive in such an unconditional way. And it is this which leads to contrition, and repentance, of all our sins.

Anyone who has not experienced this, and thinks that it is a kind of trade off, my repentance in return for God's love, really has not got a clue.

You call this postmodern. In that case Christ himself is the very first postmodern Christian. This is the love which Christ shows; it is bloody and it is painful and it is sacrificial. And it is nothing to do with hatred in any shape or form. Not even hatred of sin. Christ did not hate sin; he showed understanding of it, and compassion to the poor soul caught in its web.

Anyone who dares do less, dares be less than Christ like.
 
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Verse 9: " 'If anyone curses his father or mother, he must be put to death. He has cursed his father or his mother, and his blood will be on his own head."

:eek: <gulp>

If this is applied to the letter, there will be nobody left to throw the stones, let alone sinless people.
 
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heres an answer I prepared earlier

I would disagree with the a christian must becontinually telling the gay person they are in sin, because in many repsects that approach doesnt work

A friend has the approach that with gay people, he doesnt mention it. He figures that they get judgement from every area of society and the church and he doesnt want to add to it he also thinks that these people know that their lifestyle is wrong so to bring it up is kind of stating the obvious

You may ask "how sucessful is this approach?"

Well over the years, he has lost count of the number of people, who have come out of the gay lifestyle, because they realised that it wasnt for them, and it was destructive. However the reason they actually came to this conclusion (of the gay lifestyle being wrong) because of my friends approach. He was non jdugemental, definatly not accepting of the sin, however didnt feel the need to state the obvious

Kind of worth thinking about the next time one of us has the urge to point out their sin...... You know it, they know it, but is it actually going to do them any good to point out the obvious
 
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Well over the years, he has lost count of the number of people, who have come out of the gay lifestyle, because they realised that it wasnt for them, and it was destructive. However the reason they actually came to this conclusion (of the gay lifestyle being wrong) because of my friends approach. He was non jdugemental, definatly not accepting of the sin, however didnt feel the need to state the obvious
What exactly is the 'gay lifestyle'? Being promiscuous, or just having a relationship with someone of the same sex? Because if you're refering to the latter, I don't see what could be destructive about it(or more destructive than straight relationships).
 
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What exactly is the 'gay lifestyle'? Being promiscuous, or just having a relationship with someone of the same sex? Because if you're refering to the latter, I don't see what could be destructive about it(or more destructive than straight relationships).
His words not mine
 
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I really am coming to hate this phrase, for one single reason.

Here it is in another guise; "I am not a racist, but ... "
Not the same as that is unscriptural.

So with "Love the sinner, but ... "
same as above..not scriptural reference therefore they are not the same.

Where does anyone get this 'but' from? God does not have a 'but' in his love for us, and neither does Christ. When he meets Zaccheus and says, I am going to have dinner with you tonight, he does not say, but you must serve Lasagna or else I won't come. He says, I will be there.
The but doesn't exist, you still don't understand the concept I entailed before and you're trying to justify the love of sin with the love of the sinner. Which is not only erronous but unbiblical.

God meets us, where we are. No buts.
Duh, but we can't do whatever we want.

It is our response to his love, unconditionally given, that convicts us that we are unworthy to receive in such an unconditional way. And it is this which leads to contrition, and repentance, of all our sins.
key word repentance, which is NOT what homo advcates are advertising.

Anyone who has not experienced this, and thinks that it is a kind of trade off, my repentance in return for God's love, really has not got a clue.
You're just putting words in my mouth now.

You call this postmodern. In that case Christ himself is the very first postmodern Christian. This is the love which Christ shows; it is bloody and it is painful and it is sacrificial. And it is nothing to do with hatred in any shape or form. Not even hatred of sin. Christ did not hate sin; he showed understanding of it, and compassion to the poor soul caught in its web.
Read the bible, he shows a deep hatred for sin. I suggest you sit down and think about it, I don't know where you pulled your Christ from seems like the toothfairy would be dancing with him.

Anyone who dares do less, dares be less than Christ like.
Erronous, again go read the bible.
 
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You're his friend, and you were there for the conversation. I just assume you would know the context/what he was saying.
It seems I have yet to find someone who can explain the 'gay lifestyle' and why people use the term...
 
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Your's is subject to your intepretation of the bible and experience, so is mine. You can pretend that your concept of God is somehow more objective, but that doesn't make it true.
All interpretations are subjected to experience,except mine isn't based emotions but theological process which I try my best to be objective, you don't.


How so? Please demonstrate how I have said something equivalent to your strawman/not strawman.
Simple, your setting up the argument so mine looks bad based on emotional connotation rather than evidence.


Your comment is unclear.
Mind explaining what you don't understand?


Christians follow Christ, not scripture. Scripture have more holes than a collander and Christ would still be worth following. However, homosexuality is a fact, so I guess your scripture based faith is a falsehood, according to you.
Where exactly do you get your christ from then? Homosexuality is a fact? What kind of "fact" are you talking about? Can you please show me these facts. If your reffering as homosexuality being a sexual orientation, your wrong since there is no SCIENTIFIC of SCRIPTURAL facts that prove this.


Then stop asking for everything to be proved from scripture. A demand that one does that can only be reasonable if everything can be proved from scripture.
more useless gargabe. Scripture is God's word, without it we have no certainty of anything, not even of the existance of the Christ you claim to follow.


God isn't natural (part of nature), so such a definition is counter to reasonable usage.
If you want to get into semantics were never going to get anywhere. Naturality can be defined a number of ways which doesn't neccerly pertain to your concept of the word. Again natural or something that is ordained as "normal" by God's standard is how I defined the word. Also since God created nature, depending on the context of the word and your world view..it woud be natural for misscariges to occur, but it's not God's natural design for babies to happen...unless you wantto argue that God wants babies to die.


When Christ said "all the law and the prophets follow from these" he was lying?
irrelvant..again

I thought God's word had holes, so how does it support your argument?


It's your interpretation. An interpretation that can never be independent of the baggage that you bring to it.
Can be as objective as possible, yours clearly isn't. Are you saying that all interpretations are of equal value? Does a babies interpretation have the same as a 20 year old adult?


Exactly - we are quite capable of getting things wrong - misinterpreting God - for hundreds or even thousands of years, just as we did over race and any number of other issues.
I'm less likely than you are because of my methodology


That simply does not follow.
Please explain how.



That's ok, because that's not what I am doing.
Yes you are.
 
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In other words, your intepretation is infallible, but everyone who disagrees with it is bringing their prejudices to bear. Sorry, that doesn't wash - your interpretation is as fallible as anyone else's.
Again putting words into my mouth, when you post evidence of homosexuality being biblical i'd love to hear it, it actually reflects on your general hermanutics.
 
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Read the bible, he shows a deep hatred for sin. I suggest you sit down and think about it, I don't know where you pulled your Christ from seems like the toothfairy would be dancing with him.

I got mine from the Bible, ta muchly. No tooth fairy, but plenty of love, mercy and compassion.

God has no hatred anywhere within him, and neither does Christ. Anyone who thinks they do, will find their theology appropriately distorted to contain both love and hatred. It cannot be done; nobody can serve two masters.

God cannot contain hatred. God is holy, and any hatred coming within a thousand miles of him would get burned up in the love. Same with Christ.

Erronous, again go read the bible.

Thank you for your suggestion, containing the not so well buried presupposition that I have never read the Bible in my life. Because I know this presupposition to be false, I will take the liberty of not taking offense at your suggestion, and just laugh my head off instead.

:D :D :D

Now this is your cue to tell me I am laughing at God. :)

Lord, have mercy!
 
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Again putting words into my mouth, when you post evidence of homosexuality being biblical i'd love to hear it, it actually reflects on your general hermanutics.


You cannot ask for evidence, while at the same time putting your fingers in your ears, squishing your eyes tight and saying "Lalalalalalalala" at the top of your voice.

Or rather, you can, but you will neither see, hear nor understand.

Good luck with that. :wave:

(Antidote, if anyone cares, is to open your heart. All else will follow.)
 
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Beloved, let us love one another for love is of God and everyone that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.

John 4:7

:amen:

(Doncha just love being addressed as 'Beloved'? Think I will adopt that for all my friends. :) )
 
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All interpretations are subjected to experience,except mine isn't based emotions but theological process which I try my best to be objective, you don't.
Where is your evidence that my processes are any less objective than yours? In fact, I would rather like to know how you can make a judgement on the objectivity of my processes without even knowing what they are; I haven't told you, so I guess you are just making assumptions, and judging me on that. Does't sound very Christ-like to me.

Simple, your setting up the argument so mine looks bad based on emotional connotation rather than evidence.
Um, no. You may see it that way, but if so then you are missing the point.

Mind explaining what you don't understand?
It isn't clear what you "haven't seen one person do". I don't know what the comment was supposed to be referring to.

Where exactly do you get your christ from then?
Christ does not come to us primarily through the bible. The bible is one way out of many that he can speak to us, and even then it's first a tool through which he speaks. So, my knowledge of Christ comes from (in no particular order):
the bible (in more than one way)
other people telling me stuff
observing other people's lives
prayer
God's call on my own life, and his help in sustaining and fulfilling that calling
other writings
Creation
etc ...
I value the bible only because I believe in Christ first and he speaks through it. He is the source - not the bible; to put them the other way around is idolatory.

Homosexuality is a fact? What kind of "fact" are you talking about? Can you please show me these facts. If your reffering as homosexuality being a sexual orientation, your wrong since there is no SCIENTIFIC of SCRIPTURAL facts that prove this.
The overwhelming expert scientific opinion is that homosexual orientations exist. The only people insisting otherwise are those with a vested interest in arriving at a particular conclusion.


more useless gargabe. Scripture is God's word,
Christ is God's Word, not scripture.

without it we have no certainty of anything, not even of the existance of the Christ you claim to follow.
You have no more certainty with it than without it. You are just moving your faith from Christ to the bible. I would even suggest that you have less certainty than I - if large amount's of the OT were proved beyond doubt to be forgeries (say) then it would not shake my faith one iota, but I'm guessing it would destroy yours.


If you want to get into semantics were never going to get anywhere. Naturality can be defined a number of ways which doesn't neccerly pertain to your concept of the word. Again natural or something that is ordained as "normal" by God's standard is how I defined the word.
Using your own definitions for words that are completely at odds with accepted common or speciality usage is just daft.

Also since God created nature, depending on the context of the word and your world view..it woud be natural for misscariges to occur, but it's not God's natural design for babies to happen...unless you wantto argue that God wants babies to die.
1. Given that God has designed a system where the majority of fertilised embryos don't make it, I assume he's ok with that.
2. the word natural that I've underlined is one you've stuck into a sentence where it doesn't fit in order to try and prove that it can be used in the way you want. God doesn't have a 'natural' design in any meaningful sense; one has to stretch the meaning of the word to make the sentence make sense.


irrelvant..again
Whether Christ was telling the truth or lying is not irrelevent.

I thought God's word had holes, so how does it support your argument?
I didn't say it did have holes, I said it could have [without it damaging my faith]. But that's beside the point - I presume you are not disputing that Christ said that, so you have to deal with its implications. If Christ said that (I believe he did, and I presume you do as well), then it must be true, and if it is true then all his laws must be inferrable from the Great Commandments alone. If they can't be, then Christ never said that or Christ was wrong or Christ is a liar. I don't believe any of those three, do you?

Can be as objective as possible,
I would hardly call ignoring one of Christ's most revolutionary statements "being objective".

Are you saying that all interpretations are of equal value?
No.

I'm less likely than you are because of my methodology
At the moment your methodology seems to be "ignoring all the difficult stuff Christ said in favour of trying to pick out a new Law from circumstantial evidence". Hardly one likely to arrive at the truth.


Please explain how.
Something can be all true, partly true, or completely untrue. Even a single piece of text can be true in one sense and not in another. "It's either all true or all false" is so clearly untrue as to be laughable; almost every text ever written is partially true and partially false. What it really means is "I want it to be all true, so I will deny any other possibility".

Yes you are.
You may think that, but you are wrong. Please stop bearing false witness, or prove your claim (which you cannot do without being able to read my mind to determine my motives).
 
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You cannot ask for evidence, while at the same time putting your fingers in your ears, squishing your eyes tight and saying "Lalalalalalalala" at the top of your voice.

Or rather, you can, but you will neither see, hear nor understand.

Good luck with that. :wave:

(Antidote, if anyone cares, is to open your heart. All else will follow.)


I think I like you:clap:
 
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Where is your evidence that my processes are any less objective than yours? In fact, I would rather like to know how you can make a judgement on the objectivity of my processes without even knowing what they are; I haven't told you, so I guess you are just making assumptions, and judging me on that. Does't sound very Christ-like to me.
Oh dear Lord. All you have argued here is subjective "evidence", it's clear that you don't even believe in the infallability of scripture, so how can that be objective. Do you know what objective means?

Um, no. You may see it that way, but if so then you are missing the point.
Didn't addres anything, so invalid statement.

It isn't clear what you "haven't seen one person do". I don't know what the comment was supposed to be referring to.
Again, same as above

Christ does not come to us primarily through the bible. The bible is one way out of many that he can speak to us, and even then it's first a tool through which he speaks. So, my knowledge of Christ comes from (in no particular order):
the bible (in more than one way)
other people telling me stuff
observing other people's lives
prayer
God's call on my own life, and his help in sustaining and fulfilling that calling
other writings
Creation
etc ...
I value the bible only because I believe in Christ first and he speaks through it. He is the source - not the bible; to put them the other way around is idolatory.


The overwhelming expert scientific opinion is that homosexual orientations exist. The only people insisting otherwise are those with a vested interest in arriving at a particular conclusion.
All you have word of mouth and again you haven't prenseted what is "God's word." Is there some new canon that I need to know? And no, all reliabel scientific datat shows that homosexual orientation doesn't exist. The best homo advocates can come up with is " a result of some biological presuposition." Show me one peer review article that shows homosexuality is an orientation.

Christ is God's Word, not scripture.
What is God's word then?

You have no more certainty with it than without it. You are just moving your faith from Christ to the bible. I would even suggest that you have less certainty than I - if large amount's of the OT were proved beyond doubt to be forgeries (say) then it would not shake my faith one iota, but I'm guessing it would destroy yours.
Oh please...the canon has been repeately been proven through history. Not to mention you have not proven any reliabel source of Christ of your own. You got Christ out of thin air.


Using your own definitions for words that are completely at odds with accepted common or speciality usage is just daft.
Nope, you just don't have common understanding of the various uses of the words.

1. Given that God has designed a system where the majority of fertilised embryos don't make it, I assume he's ok with that.
2. the word natural that I've underlined is one you've stuck into a sentence where it doesn't fit in order to try and prove that it can be used in the way you want. God doesn't have a 'natural' design in any meaningful sense; one has to stretch the meaning of the word to make the sentence make sense.
1) I want to see the evidence for that, and biblically you're incorret. But then again your God comes out of thin air.
2)Fits perfectly well if you understand the context of the word.



Whether Christ was telling the truth or lying is not irrelevent.
lol. This made me laugh, if Christ lied then we don't have anything go on as Christain. We would all just believe in some random God.


I didn't say it did have holes, I said it could have [without it damaging my faith]. But that's beside the point - I presume you are not disputing that Christ said that, so you have to deal with its implications. If Christ said that (I believe he did, and I presume you do as well), then it must be true, and if it is true then all his laws must be inferrable from the Great Commandments alone. If they can't be, then Christ never said that or Christ was wrong or Christ is a liar. I don't believe any of those three, do you?
This is simple, either it has wholes or it doesn't. If it does, then there is no point in listening to it. You're taking the bible and the parts you like and using those and then the parts you don't like and saing their in valid. I suggest you look at the canonization of scripture.


I would hardly call ignoring one of Christ's most revolutionary statements "being objective".
I would since the only being that could be objective is God.


How about you stop with the here say and step up with some evidence.


At the moment your methodology seems to be "ignoring all the difficult stuff Christ said in favour of trying to pick out a new Law from circumstantial evidence". Hardly one likely to arrive at the truth.
huh? Wow talk about hypocrital. My methodology is compromised of scripture first because that's the only realiable source of truth. Everything else is based on falliable knowledge, whether it's reason or experience which is what you are doing.



Something can be all true, partly true, or completely untrue. Even a single piece of text can be true in one sense and not in another. "It's either all true or all false" is so clearly untrue as to be laughable; almost every text ever written is partially true and partially false. What it really means is "I want it to be all true, so I will deny any other possibility".
Again, if part of is right, we have no christ. Christ is based on the concept on the entire falliabel word of God. How do we know certain parts are true about hima nd others are not? Any peice of "evidence" you claim is subjective. Unless you want to present another canon and your evidence for it you have nothing.


You may think that, but you are wrong. Please stop bearing false witness, or prove your claim (which you cannot do without being able to read my mind to determine my motives).
OH please, talk about flase witness, not only do you have no evidence for none of your arguments all you do is make random statments. Even if you don't recognize your lies or admit to them, they are still there.
 
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