It is not outside God's Will. There is only one God, and homosexual sex is outside of His will. Outside Christian law maybe..No "maybe" about it... If God has only provided for marriage between man and woman, than homosexuality would not exsits Not true. Humanity is fallen from the state of perfection that God created. Perversion of that perfection exists, and homosexuality is one of those perversions. Don't get me wrong here. I'm not standing here screaming "Pervert" at you. Perversion is just a deviation from what something should have been. The perfect will of God is for a man and a woman to unite as one in marriage, and to have sex only in that union, and to have children from that sex, if it is His will that they have children. The existence of a perversion doesn't nulify God's instructions for the behavior of His creation. Homosexual sex is not permitted behavior-my marriage would not exist. You certainly have the right to call your relationship whatever you want. Two men, nor two women will ever eqate the union of a man and a woman. And, it does.As I said, call your relatioship whatever you want.. I don't think God plays games--He doesn't. This life is a serious preparation for the next one.certainly not with me.I agree. I am not his pawn on his chess board.I never said you or anyone else is. He loves you too much to "play" with you. I am his friend This is un-Biblical, but then you aren't a Christian. I will caution you about putting yourself on equal footing with God. He's God. You are a man. and part of the whole that is Divinity. If you were a Christian, then in a certain sense this would be true. The love that I have to give is pure. And sharing that love with someone whom I TRUELY love is a pure way to rejoice in Divinity. It is real and it is good. The issue here is not love. I don't doubt that you love your homosexual partner. I don't doubt that he loves you. The issue is homosexual sex. It is a sin.
 
Some closet I'm not in the closet in any way, shape or form. gay guy I am a born-again Christian man who struggles against same-sex attraction. This is how I describe myself. Call me whatever you want. with his head stuck in a Bible, Everyday, as much as I can. praying over himself, I pray for a lot more than myself, beleive you me. hoping for a change, The only thing I truly hope for is to stand in front of God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit and hearing God say "Well done. I knew I could count on you. I know you have a lot of questions, but that can wait. Come on in and get some rest." forcing himself to marry a woman I would never force myself to do any such thing., is what I call a sin As much as you think you are on equal footing with God, you don't make the determination as to what is sin. You never had that power, and you never will. It is a sin of a self-obsorbed, self-degrading, sad man. If you actually knew me you would use none of those words to describe me. God is very hard to hear No. Not really for those who want to hear Him. above the noise of biblical scripture The Word of God is not noise to the ear of the believer.and self-loathing. I don't know where you got that, but I spend every minute of everyday thinking I'm the luckiest guy on the face of this earth! It is a sure way to mental and emotional illness..I'm quite mentally and emotional healthy. I assure you. But hey this is only my opinion...You most certainly have a right to one. 
 
And finally, a loving marriage between two people of the same sex is no more "about sex" than a loving marriage between a man and woman. Of course a marraige cannot be based on sex alone. Althought, it is a very important part of the bond between a husband and wife. This whole "gay" equals "just sex" equation is a horribly disrespectful notion. I never at any time said that "gay equals sex". [/QUOTE]
 
There is one God. He has revealed Himself through the OT and NT. He created us, and no one knows better than He what is best for us. All of the good intentions of living in "pure" love will never change Him or the reality of His relationship with His creation based on the scrifice of Jesus for our sins, so that we don't have to pay the price for those sins. Everyone has sinned. Everyone. Sin requires judgement, a judgement in which everyone will be found guilty, except those who believe that Jesus paid that price for us already. It's a free gift. No one earns it or deserves it. Not me, or you, or Billy Graham or the Pope. It is the free gift of God for anyone who will accept it. The requirement is that after we accept it we leave what lies behind and strive forward to live within His instructions for His creation. Are we perfect? No, but we strive for it. Sometimes we fall. We get up. We ask for forgiveness, which is already given to us before we ask, and we continue on our walk with the Lord. It's hard sometimes. It's joyous most of the time. It's mysterious a lot of the time. It's always rewarding. I encourage you to give it some thought.