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Yeah - it's a struggle for me at times to keep a good perspective. I'm working on it - really I am but it's hardIJWTS that would be a shame if you shot yourself in the foot. You had a good perspective last night.
Love ya tooIJWTS I love you, D and Chicky.
Hi Elle Welcome to over-analyzer's unite - LOL! You're certainly not alone in the trying not to but still over analyze part. Whew! One day, we're going to get this figured out! At least I hope so!Do I ever! I try not to, but I do. But I am working on it.
You know what I realized? I do not post near as much as I should on CF because I am always analyzing whether I will say the wrong thing or sound stupid, or make someone angry, or questioning if my point has already been made. I am terrible with OA, but this is just ONE silly example.
Sooooo...how did the practice go?Speaking of over-analyzing though, I have my second band rehersal tonight (I went last week for the first time in EIGHT YEARS, interacting with 40 people I've never met before and playing an instrument I haven't picked up since high school, and trying to make that gel with my anxiety disorders?) and I'm over-analyzing how badly I'm going to suck and what if I'm the first person in history to get kicked out of a small-town community band for sucking
Sooooo...how did the practice go?
I once analyzed people on CF based on the type of shoes they wore and was pretty accurate.
How'd that work out?
I've been known to analyze - or overanalyze - a bit much. But it's less overanalyzing and more having a plan A, B, C, and D; and an alternate way to pull off plan C.
People would post pictures of shoes they wear and I would describe their personality.
And, you sound more like a strategist than analyst.
People would post pictures of shoes they wear and I would describe their personality.
And, you sound more like a strategist than analyst.