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He's wonderful!

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I just got off the phone with my boyfriend, and he's wonderful, and I want to tell someone - anyone - how wonderful he is, and it's too late at night to call any of my friends, so I thought it might be OK to say it here instead:

He's wonderful.

Well, okay then!! Congrats!! ;)
 
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I know how you feel pea..... sometimes. Right now I'm annoyed. It's T's birthday and he was taking his dd to Disneyland for dinner. He never keeps her out this late on a school night and he said he'd call when he got home. I was actually hoping we might have a little time together tonight after I got my dd to bed even though we celebrated last night. I'm disappointed.

Sorry to be a downer. I'm glad your bf is making you so happy.

Eh, he just called. He kept her out until 9 and he took his boss/friend and some other "friends" were there. It sucks being excluded even though I know it has to be that way for now.
 
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I know how you feel pea..... sometimes. Right now I'm annoyed. It's T's birthday and he was taking his dd to Disneyland for dinner. He never keeps her out this late on a school night and he said he'd call when he got home. I was actually hoping we might have a little time together tonight after I got my dd to bed even though we celebrated last night. I'm disappointed.

Sorry to be a downer. I'm glad your bf is making you so happy.

Eh, he just called. He kept her out until 9 and he took his boss/friend and some other "friends" were there. It sucks being excluded even though I know it has to be that way for now.

Why does he have to exclude you? :scratch:
 
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Why does he have to exclude you? :scratch:
Per the agreement with his ex they can't introduce romantic interests to their dd until after 6 months of dating. I totally understand and respect his desire to protect his dd. She's an only child and wants a sister badly. I have a dd. I'm his first (hopefully last) post-divorce relationship. His ex actually told him he could introduce me since we seem so serious, but he's protective of his dd and is also afraid his ex will use this to her benefit in her own dating.
He said he was going to invite me and my dd to his dd's birthday party when we are at the 4 month mark just because there's going to be other kids around.

Sorry pea. We're good, lets be happy. Just a bit of extra stress because of our recent discussions. I know you understand.
 
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Per the agreement with his ex they can't introduce romantic interests to their dd until after 6 months of dating. I totally understand and respect his desire to protect his dd. She's an only child and wants a sister badly. I have a dd. I'm his first (hopefully last) post-divorce relationship. His ex actually told him he could introduce me since we seem so serious, but he's protective of his dd and is also afraid his ex will use this to her benefit in her own dating.
He said he was going to invite me and my dd to his dd's birthday party when we are at the 4 month mark just because there's going to be other kids around.

Sorry pea. We're good, lets be happy. Just a bit of extra stress because of our recent discussions. I know you understand.

:hug:
Divorce is such a 'sticky' thing! :sigh:

Well wishes for you & new bf! ;)
 
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Per the agreement with his ex they can't introduce romantic interests to their dd until after 6 months of dating. I totally understand and respect his desire to protect his dd. She's an only child and wants a sister badly. I have a dd. I'm his first (hopefully last) post-divorce relationship. His ex actually told him he could introduce me since we seem so serious, but he's protective of his dd and is also afraid his ex will use this to her benefit in her own dating.
He said he was going to invite me and my dd to his dd's birthday party when we are at the 4 month mark just because there's going to be other kids around.

Sorry pea. We're good, lets be happy. Just a bit of extra stress because of our recent discussions. I know you understand.
No problem. :) I do understand. Who's to say my next post won't be "Argh ... MEN!!!" :p

(PP bookmarks thread so she can remember how wonderful he is next time she has one of those "ARGH" moments ... )
 
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Tonight T skipped his men's church potluck because his boss/friend took him to a hockey game. Maybe he's been hearing it in my voice; he's been very perceptive with my facial expressions. He said it twice; he's had a great birthday. Started with me on Monday, Tuesday with his dd, and then going to his first hockey game with his friend and having a blast. He said he got to spend time with the three most important people in his life and he had a great time all three days. That was nice to hear.
 
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Must have been a good one - you even changed your clothes! Nice dress there! ;)
Thanks, it's my party dress-school's out. I hate that my ankles look so fat though.

Lots of wholesome snuggling last night. Just absorbing some of his heat since I've been freezing the last month. I talked him into letting his nephew come watch the Laker's game. It doesn't hurt to make some points with the family you know. Actually a chaperone isn't a bad idea and the kid is only about 4 years older than my son and he's joining the Marines next month. I want him to have some time with his uncle since he doesn't get along so well with his dad.
 
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