I would say this is where we differ , and I am sure it will remain so.
Are any other than the ELECT called to believe on Christ for salvation Jon ?
To say that the Gospel is preached to all men but at the same time maintain the Gospel is not "REPENT and believe on The Lord Jesus Christ , Flee The wrath to come " ... is I would say a contradiction.....
To say that the Gospel is preached to all men , and the message is simply "Christ has died for the elect " is not preaching the Gospel .
The Gospel is not simply what God has done or what God will do , but it is also what men ought to do.
If we are not calling all men to Repent towards God and place their faith in Christ to submit to Jesus authority and to trust in His redeeming work , then we are not preaching the good news , merely telling someone what the Good News is abstractly is not the same as preaching it to them.
an example ;
"Should we say, "perhaps you should try Jesus as you savior" ...almost with a consumer market oriented mentality"?. "There are lots of religious options and if you try this particular religious option you might like it." ... No... rather, Jesus is Lord and he will soon be invading with His armies. He is offering pardon in advance of His invasion and should you receive the pardon and ally yourself with Him now before He invades, when he comes you will be considered HIs ally and He will raise you to Kingship. The alternative is to be under the wrath of the king. It is not some kind of religious option. It an announcement that a new king is on the throne and he'll be invading. The gospel is not an invitation to an array of a buffet style choices, it is a command. Will you heed the command? Jesus is Lord, repent and believe." -William Wilder
A Summary of the Gospel
"The gospel of Christ in general is this: It is the good tidings that God has revealed concerning Christ. More largely it is this: As all mankind was lost in Adam and became the children of wrath, put under the sentence of death, God, though He left His fallen angels and has reserved them in the chains of eternal darkness, yet He has thought upon the children of men and has provided a way of atonement to reconcile them to Himself again... Namely, the second person of the Trinity takes man's nature upon Himself, and becomes the Head of a second covenant, standing charged with sin. He answers for it by suffering what the law and divine justice required, and by making satisfaction by keeping the law perfectly, which satisfaction and righteousness He tenders up to the Father as a sweet savor of rest for the souls that are given to Him...And now this mediation of Christ is, by the appointment of the Father, preached to the children of men, of whatever nation or rank, freely offering this atonement unto sinners for atonement, requiring them to believe in Him and, upon believing, promising not only a discharge of all their former sins, but that they shall not enter into condemnation, that none of their sins or unworthiness shall ever hinder the peace of God with them, but that they shall through Him be received into the number of those who shall have the image of God again to be renewed unto them, and they they shall be kept by the power of God through faith unto salvation." - Jeremiah Burroughs
So I know we arn't going to agree on this brother , but I find it difficult to ignore this important issue.
God Bless you Jon.