Help!

[Krissy Cakes]

I'm sad and mad and confused. Husband wants a divorce.
Don't want to be here anymore.

My father in law has to come down to the house tomorrow as I have a doctors appointment and Jordan has one with the VA in the morning. He wants for Jordan and I to talk. There is going to be a lot of emotions tomorrow. Haven't been able to sleep or eat much. (I made some spaghetti today) but that is even making me sick. All I have been doing for the past few days is cry. I have NO ONE here and he has everyone, all his family and friends. His father in law says he will always love me but I don't believe that. If by God's will we do get a divorce I will probably move back in with my parents. BUT there is one thing my parents said when I talked to them. They said I can't bring Peanut. Shes MY baby girl and I don't want to leave her. UGH!

Can this please be a dream and I wake up soon?

 

[Tempura]

Said a little prayer for you. I hope things work out as well as they possibly can.

 

[Fortran]

I am sorry. I wish I could say more, but I will pray for you.

 

[Krissy Cakes]

Said a little prayer for you. I hope things work out as well as they possibly can.

Thank you

 

[Krissy Cakes]

I am sorry. I wish I could say more, but I will pray for you.

thank you

 

[farout]

I'm sad and mad and confused. Husband wants a divorce.
Don't want to be here anymore.

My father in law has to come down to the house tomorrow as I have a doctors appointment and Jordan has one with the VA in the morning. He wants for Jordan and I to talk. There is going to be a lot of emotions tomorrow. Haven't been able to sleep or eat much. (I made some spaghetti today) but that is even making me sick. All I have been doing for the past few days is cry. I have NO ONE here and he has everyone, all his family and friends. His father in law says he will always love me but I don't believe that. If by God's will we do get a divorce I will probably move back in with my parents. BUT there is one thing my parents said when I talked to them. They said I can't bring Peanut. Shes MY baby girl and I don't want to leave her. UGH!

Can this please be a dream and I wake up soon?

I believe you ned to involve your pastor ASAP. I think there is deeper things than he does not want be there anymore. I have counseled a good bit and this has a ring that sounds so familiar. He needs lots of prayer! I would gather as many of the Godly people you know and pray, pray for him as never before, ask God the remove the scales from his heart. His heart is very hard and in deep trouble.

 

[Tigger45]

Divorce can be tough I know. Is there anyone you feel comfortable with that you can call? Anyone at church also? Of course you also have us at CF that care

 

[St_Worm2]

I am sorry and saddened to hear this Sister

Praying for you (and your husband).

Is he a believer?

 

[Krissy Cakes]

I believe you ned to involve your pastor ASAP. I think there is deeper things than he does not want be there anymore. I have counseled a good bit and this has a ring that sounds so familiar. He needs lots of prayer! I would gather as many of the Godly people you know and pray, pray for him as never before, ask God the remove the scales from his heart. His heart is very hard and in deep trouble.

I don't drive. So I can't get to church. I have no one. He has all his family here and I have no one.

I hope God can help him cause this is messed up that he is a "Christian" and when things get a little hard and he wants a easy out. He screams divorce.

 

[Krissy Cakes]

Divorce can be tough I know. Is there anyone you feel comfortable with that you can call? Anyone at church also? Of course you also have us at CF that care

Nope I have no one.

Thank you for caring.

 

[Krissy Cakes]

I am sorry and saddened to hear this Sister

Praying for you (and your husband).

Is he a believer?

Thank you so much for your prayers.

I'm not sure now if hes a believer. Cause you know what it says in the bible about divorce? If he was a believer he wouldn't want this.

 

[St_Worm2]

I agree, which is why I asked. I will pray accordingly. If he claims to be a believer however, be sure to point out to him what the Bible teaches us about divorce and ask him why he believes it's ok to proceed with it in your case (Matthew 19:9; Malachi 2:16).

If you don't have a church and, therefore, no regular, local support/fellowship from brothers and sisters in Christ, I would recommend that you find a church to be a part of post haste. God does not want His children to go through such times alone!

Praying for you!

 

[Sharon0110]

He has all his family here and I have no one.

Not true.

He has all his family, but you have all the family you need.

Don't ever forget about your Father in Heaven. When the journey ahead seems precarious and dangerous, remember that God is there! Deuteronomy 31:8 Hebrews 4:16 Psalms 73:26

 

[BookishGirl]

I'm sad and mad and confused. Husband wants a divorce.
Don't want to be here anymore.

My father in law has to come down to the house tomorrow as I have a doctors appointment and Jordan has one with the VA in the morning. He wants for Jordan and I to talk. There is going to be a lot of emotions tomorrow. Haven't been able to sleep or eat much. (I made some spaghetti today) but that is even making me sick. All I have been doing for the past few days is cry. I have NO ONE here and he has everyone, all his family and friends. His father in law says he will always love me but I don't believe that. If by God's will we do get a divorce I will probably move back in with my parents. BUT there is one thing my parents said when I talked to them. They said I can't bring Peanut. Shes MY baby girl and I don't want to leave her. UGH!

Can this please be a dream and I wake up soon?

When you go to see your doctor tomorrow please tell him what is happening. I'm concerned with your statement that I highlighted above -- you "don't want to be here anymore". Tell your doctor that. He may be able to point you in the direction of some help.

I am praying for you ArmyWife.

 

[Krissy Cakes]

I agree, which is why I asked. I will pray accordingly. If he claims to be a believer however, be sure to point out to him what the Bible teaches us about divorce and ask him why he believes it's ok to proceed with it in your case (Matthew 19:9; Malachi 2:16).

If you don't have a church and, therefore, no regular, local support/fellowship from brothers and sisters in Christ, I would recommend that you find a church to be a part of post haste. God does not want His children to go through such times alone!

Praying for you!

Thank you for your prayers for him.

I do have a church but I don't drive. I have sent my pastor a text so we will see.

Thank you for your prayers for me. This has been the hardest thing I've done. (Just waited to see what he wants)

 

[Krissy Cakes]

Not true.

He has all his family, but you have all the family you need.

Don't ever forget about your Father in Heaven. When the journey ahead seems precarious and dangerous, remember that God is there! Deuteronomy 31:8 Hebrews 4:16 Psalms 73:26

Yes I have my family but its different. I have no one here with me.
He has everyone and I have no one.

I'm trying to keep faith but its really hard right now.

 

[TheGirlOnFire]

Praying for you x

 

[Krissy Cakes]

When you go to see your doctor tomorrow please tell him what is happening. I'm concerned with your statement that I highlighted above -- you "don't want to be here anymore". Tell your doctor that. He may be able to point you in the direction of some help.

I am praying for you ArmyWife.

I will tell her. But its like right now I don't care if I live or die. This is the worst.

Thank you for your prayers.

 

[Krissy Cakes]

Praying for you x

Thank you for your prayers.

 

[Aelred of Rievaulx]

I'm sad and mad and confused. Husband wants a divorce.
Don't want to be here anymore.

My father in law has to come down to the house tomorrow as I have a doctors appointment and Jordan has one with the VA in the morning. He wants for Jordan and I to talk. There is going to be a lot of emotions tomorrow. Haven't been able to sleep or eat much. (I made some spaghetti today) but that is even making me sick. All I have been doing for the past few days is cry. I have NO ONE here and he has everyone, all his family and friends. His father in law says he will always love me but I don't believe that. If by God's will we do get a divorce I will probably move back in with my parents. BUT there is one thing my parents said when I talked to them. They said I can't bring Peanut. Shes MY baby girl and I don't want to leave her. UGH!

Can this please be a dream and I wake up soon?

You've said what everyone else wants. What do you want? That's what you should be fighting for.