Help?

[godsgirl4ever]

How would i know when God brings me my husband?
God told me 4 times that i was going to marry. But not to rush into a relationship right now just wait. So i got engaged to this guy who wasn't even a christian but god told me the whole time i was dating him that he wasn't my husband but i don't listen to God. As the longer i was with him it just got bad then it got to the point where i couldn't stand being in the relationship so i broke-up with him.
I'm soo glad but how can i tell when God brings me a boyfriend that will be my husband? Anyone got any advice for me? please?
I feel like i NEVER want to date again!

 

[Johnnz]

Just being around socially with other guys and getting to know them gives you some basis for finding someone who attracts you because there is something there fr you is a good start. Long term relationships require common interests, values, goals etc, and these take time to discover.

Make sure you are aperson with good interests, values etc, as like can attract like, and if you are a vital, interesting person you will be more attractive to someone like that too.

Just because God has spoken to you don't assume that you will suddenly 'get a word' that this is the guy for you. I have seen more ill advised marriages result from this than I care to recount. Building relationships sensibly, the advice and support of others, plus prayer are more likely to result ina good choice for each other.

John
NZ

 

[Sketcher]

I agree, wait on Him. What I've heard is helpful is to memorize verses about what a Godly husband is supposed to be like, along with a Godly wife. So you can concentrate on becoming a Godly woman yourself, and when a Godly man steps into your life, you'll recognize it.

 

[MagicStar723]

Just wait. God talks to us all in diffirent ways, I can just say that you will know!
When God is telling you something, or you think He is, diligently pray on it. Study it. He will let you know! He also doesn't change his mind and will keep telling you.

 

[Iggster]

Do not wait for the Lord. He is already calling you to Him. Be at peace with the Lord. The Lord wants to spend some quality time with you. He yearns for you to come to Him and just enjoy one another's company. Don't look anywhere else. Don't look for anymore signs. Know that He knows your needs and have provided for you already. Only He can make you happy and content. Be silent........Be still..........Know that He is your God.

If He is to bless you with bigger and better things, you must learn to enjoy the simplest blessings He's already given you in life. Have you thanked Him for the very air you breath? Isn't it wonderful that He has added another day to your life?

 

[swimmifish]

When you say that God told you 4 times you were going to marry...how did He tell you this? Just curious!

 

[godsgirl4ever]

When you say that God told you 4 times you were going to marry...how did He tell you this? Just curious!

Through different christian people that go to my church. (Quail Valley).

 

[Wakeup2god]

Here are a few ideas for you.

Get busy with singles in the church (preferably female, and you'll see what fun you should be having at your age as a single person.
If you realy want to date a fella invite him to church or church activities, sure to sort the chaf from the wheat. Don't be uneavenly yoked.
Seek wise council from older women (and men for a male perspective).
Seek first the kingdom of God and all these things shall be added unto you.

Personally thnk you're too young to be even thinking about marriage.