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Help with my dream?!

YaniBear777

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Ok, so I'm totally stressed about my college grades coming up and I can't sleep. My parents keep telling me to have faith and I normally do but it's hard because I know or feel like I didn't do so well this semester. So, yesterday I took a nap and I had a dream. My mom and brothers went to my grandma and grandpa's old house. They moved a long time ago in real life but they weren't there in the dream neither was my dad. We were in the hall way and we look around and opened up this room my deceased aunt stayed in. She died about 11 or 12 years ago. We heard noises in her room but no one was there. Then I saw this haze or cloud come from here room into the hall way. I immediately recognized the form as her. I asked if it was her and she nodded yes and I was shocked but not scared. She didn't talk but I understood her clearly to the point I forgot she wasn't talking on some parts. I was allowed to ask reasonable questions. Before I asked about my schooling she told me I was going to pass so stop worrying and just have faith that God will carry me through. I asked many other questions but the only other question I remember is "will I ever get married and when?" she told me at 23. I'm 20 now and My birthday is in September. Is that even possible to find the love of my life in such a short time? The dream felt so real! I woke up after she answered so if it was real, maybe God said that was enough questions? Idk but as soon as I woke up, I felt no more stress and I still don't. Should I put my faith in that dream? I don't want to look like a fool believing it was from God and it doesn't come true. I told my mother when I woke up and she asked me did I know my aunt's birthday is this month and I had no clue. I totally forgot and I was so stressed, I forgot yesterday was her daughter's/ my cousin's birthday when I had the dream. I want to believe it because God has seriously done so miraculous things in my life ranging from sending an angel to let me know I was beautiful when I was complaining about how ugly I felt in my pajamas going to eat in veagas with my family before I came into the restraunt and when we were waiting in line, I was irritated and an old woman came to me and said "You are a beautiful young lady" and I smiled and said "thank you very much" and she shook my hand or gave me a hug and went around the corner. My brother went and followed her and he said she was gone. My family looked at eachother and I said "how did she know? I was complaining in my car and no one was outside." We all came to 1 conclusion. It ranges from that to getting straight A's in the last year of highschool without trying because I understood everything so clearly that I barely studied and recieved 2 medals and a certificate. It was like God opened my mind. So, what do you think about the dream? Should I take it into consideration?
 
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Hi, yanibear777:wave: just read your post. God can speak to us in many ways and I do believe he does that in dreams too. He does me! Regarding your dream, I have had dreams about my dad since he passed away, and a message from my nan, telling me that everything was going to be ok. So yes, I don't see why it cant be true, just I guess give it back to God and ask him to confirm it. it was great you woke up and felt no more stress. :) So that's great and I am sure if it was a dream from the enemy you wouldn't get that. I know when I have God dreams they seem to refresh me and God can use people to encourage us.
Wow it was wonderful to hear about that angel too.:) Be blessed, God is speaking to you and be encouraged. God bless you. He has great plans for you. Hope that helps in some way :clap::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:love Joxx
 
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I think you should take your dream in do consideration with zeal.

Our brains have an uncanny ability to create worlds, pictures, voices and other phenomena for us if there's something up in our life that we may not be focusing on. Basically your subconscious did a checkup with you to see how you were doing.

It was very interesting when you were mentioning the being who appeared to you in your dream. Sound very much like a tulpa, which is a psychological phenomenon that's very much like the person you were talking to.

Only God could create such an amazing thing such as the mind, and It must be truly wonderful to have your life improved since that special visitation.

All the luck for the future and God bless!
 
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YaniBear777

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Oh yes Jo1, any advice I can get from my fellow Christians is very helpful! I definitely asked God to clear that up for me and I have a sense that it was truthful but I will ask again to make sure. Also, The angel experience was so awesome! That let me know for sure God was and still is watching over me so I will never ever fall out of belief that Jesus is the son of God and there is a trinity but 1 God. Nothing is impossible through God's hands.
 
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I have had somewhat similar experience, God speaking threw dreams.

Me and my girlfriend have been threw so much, I stood up for her, protected her and nearly lost my life for her and I did it because it was what God had prepared me for, to stay strong and he will protect me

Anyways have been having dreams of my girlfriend being pregnant, and of my son, (I have no children in real life, nor is my gf pregnant) I have dreams every night now where he talks to me, when I'm lost in my faith or struggling in my relationships me and him will sit down and talk. He will tell me what to do and it always works.

Last night my grandma who died 2 years ago was holding him, me and my gf were standing there and she was telling me how beautiful he is. I woke up in tears.
 
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