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Help with marriage( Need Prayers )

mango65

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My wife and I have been together for a total of 15 yrs. Married for 11. She is 41 and I am 39. We have 2 children (Ally 5, Ian 8). Our marrige before children was pretty bad. Parties and fighting which involved physical abuse by both of us. We both changed alot after the children for the better. This summer we were both saved. She went to church a couple of times then said she wasnt into it anymore. The kids and I continue to go. The wife and I have gotten along better in the last 6 months than ever before. Then 3 weeks ago she tells me she is moving and taking the kids to her moms who lives in town ( Maryland). I have noticed strang behavior prior to this. Being distant,wanting to be on P.C. all night instead of comming to bed , ect. I asked if their was another man and she said she met him online. He lives on west coast and they have been talking on cell phones. She says she needs time away to get head straight but she is still talking to this guy. She says she dont know if she loves me or if shes comming back. The situation is breaking my heart and the kids. They want us together. I have been a terrific dad and they love me very much. I pray all the time for God to fix this broken home. Pray for me,wife, and children. Thanks Brian, wifes name Kelly.
 

heartnsoul

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I am sorry to hear about your marriage. Draw close to God right now and continue being the best husband and father that you already are. Take your pain to God and let Him work things out. Whatever happens, know that God will love you and never leave you.

May God give you strength and comfort during this tough time and may God clear your wife's confusion. :angel:
 
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