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God bless you, auntie.
Praying that you are feeling better this morning!
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I'm too gutted to even respond.![]()
Maybe later.![]()

In my scripture reading for today, numerous verses were put together all with the same message. The truth is there for people with eyes to see and ears to hear. Simple as that. Pray for those whose eyes cannot discern truth and whose ears refuse to listen to truth!Okay. Can I cry now?? What the H-E-L-L is going on here?? Are people stupid?? NO, they are not stupid. So what in the world is going on here....
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Censorship is okay, as long as it is only Christians who are censored??

I am seeing this so much within the last few months (and years) within society as a whole -- light being turned into dark, and dark into light...In my scripture reading for today, numerous verses were put together all with the same message. The truth is there for people with eyes to see and ears to hear. Simple as that. Pray for those whose eyes cannot discern truth and whose ears refuse to listen to truth!![]()
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I am feeling a little better tonight, but still very much distressed.
About the forum in general or about that signature specifically? 
About the forum in general or about that signature specifically?
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Am really sorryheh....well.......I feel very much betrayed by someone who I thought was a friend.So I am having to deal with that, on an emotional level, just knowing, this person was never my friend.

I always took it as a veiled barb against conservative Christians, for some reason. But that may be because of the people that have it. I was thinking, though... even the people that have it in their signature, they're Christians. And they wouldn't flame themselves, so maybe they don't mean it as badly as it comes across. But it's not right that it upset you every time you see it. Have you tried speaking to the people by pm and telling them how you feel?About the sig, I feel just as strongly as I ever did. I don't think it's right to diss ALL Christians. And the Ghandi quote clearly disses ALL Christians.
Not that I have anything against Ghandi, coz I don't. But to use his quote here, as a way of dissing all Christians, without regard to his real meaning, just leaves me cold.
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Am really sorryThat must hurt. We all mess up, though, sis. Maybe they didn't mean to betray you? Not that that makes it any easier to take. Sending you a hug, and prayers
I always took it as a veiled barb against conservative Christians, for some reason. But that may be because of the people that have it. I was thinking, though... even the people that have it in their signature, they're Christians. And they wouldn't flame themselves, so maybe they don't mean it as badly as it comes across. But it's not right that it upset you every time you see it. Have you tried speaking to the people by pm and telling them how you feel?
“Forth from his dark and lonely hiding-place, (Portentous sight!) the owlet Atheism, sailing on obscene wings athwart the noon, drops his blue-fringed lids, and holds them close, and hooting at the glorious sun in Heaven, cries out, ''Where is it?''”
Samuel Taylor Coleridge
“Selfishness is the only real atheism; unselfishness the only real religion.”
Israel Zangwill
“The more thoroughly I conduct scientific research, the more I believe that science excludes atheism.”
Lord Kelvin

I personally think the Ghandi quote is meant more as an exhortation to be more like Christ, as we all know there are those who profess to be Christians, but do NOT exhibit the Lord's teachings.
I too have noticed that it seems only those who describe themselves as Liberal use that quote. And, I do think it is meant in a derogatory manner...
But, I don't know the people personally so for me to assume they have malicious intent would be wrong for me to do, I think.
As for how you are feeling Auntie, please know that there are many other people who are here and ARE your friends. I have experienced what you are describing -- someone whom you thought was a true friend ends up betraying you. It can feel like you were stabbed through the heart... and the back as well! All I can say is that it's good that you know this person isn't your friend now. You will grieve the loss of this friendship, but it's always better to know now, rather than later.
I personally had a friend in high school that I thought was a very close friend. I found out YEARS later when we were talking about the "old days" that she had been lying to me about something very close to my heart (a crush I had on a boy). Even 15 years later when I no longer liked the boy... to find out my friend went behind my back and dated him without me knowing cut my heart!!! There were other issues that caused me to end out friendship, but after knowing her since the 1st grade it was VERY hard to deal with the loss.
I have other friends with whom I've had fallings out - over much more serious things, and it always hurts so badly. It's a real shame that people can't be more loving and caring and righteous. However, God WILL introduce us to friends who ARE that way -- even if they are far and few in-between.
I will pray that God comforts you, and takes away the feelings of hurt, disappointment, and anger that you are dealing with right now. I've been there and I know how bad it hurts when someone does things like this to you.
I'm sending some hugs to you Auntie!!!![]()
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heh....well.......I feel very much betrayed by someone who I thought was a friend.So I am having to deal with that, on an emotional level, just knowing, this person was never my friend.
About the sig, I feel just as strongly as I ever did. I don't think it's right to diss ALL Christians. And the Ghandi quote clearly disses ALL Christians.
Not that I have anything against Ghandi, coz I don't. But to use his quote here, as a way of dissing all Christians, without regard to his real meaning, just leaves me cold.
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