Help please?

[Catholic Wife]

Make sure your focus remains on God and don't ever let anyone lead you away. Choose a good man to date/marry and don't settle for less! God will reward your faithfulness to Him.

Another good book to read is The ABCs of Choosing a Good Husband by Stephen Wood. It offers great insight into what a Christian woman should look for in a husband (it is a choice after all).

 

[Angel of God]

I need answer. I need help.

I have been with a guy for 2 years on & off. I've recently been saved and I feel wonderful. I like serving God & going to church. My boyfriend isn't saved and he labels himself a "Catholic." He does things that I don't like. I've been praying about him, he's improving but he's not yet ready to commit himself to God. Everytime I talk to him I feel like he's taking me back to the old me, the me that I don't want to be anymore. I don't know what to do. Neither of us want to let go of each other. I need advice. What should I do? Please help me.

The important thing is that he has not to be a hurdle for your christian life.
You would have to know him very well because your sons will have a life that can prejudice your christian life.
Attention, woman is weak sex for 99,99....%......
If your boyfriend celebrates christian festivities...and loves...christian laws then I think he can be good...

 

[heron]

I'm sure that some of this advice sounds legalistic, but it's really about foresight. What you choose becomes your life.

You eventually want to be around soemone who brings out the best in you and helps you achieve your goals...who understands why you want to spend evenings doing service projects, music practice, or home groups...why you want to give ten percent of your joint income away.

When life brings tragedies--and it will--everyone gets on edge and is not in their best behavior. It's nice to have a spouse who suggests prayer, or talking with an elder, when you're at a loss for what to do.

But the "taking you back to the old you" --that can be patterns and ruts, and can happen with dedicated Christians too.