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I need prayer/advice really bad. I am currently in the military. In 90 days my contract is up. I can’t figure out if I am supposed to reenlist or go to a missionary training school. I feel that both causes are just. Everyday I change my mind. I feel that leaving the military would be like turning my back on my brothers and staying in would be like turning my back on God please pray for me to make the right decision.
 

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90 days is still quite a bit of time. God will show you what you should do. You will not be turning your back on your brothers if you leave the military. If they are truly your friends, they will not see it that way. I would never turn my back on my brothers, and I surely would never turn my back on God. Choose to serve the higher purpose, always. God bless you and your fellow soldiers and all you do for this country.
 
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BigRed,

I join Devoted Daughter and others in welcoming you.

I will lift you up in prayer and ask that you receive guidance in discerning God's will in your life. He gives us the desire and the accomplishment (Phillipians) and surely will show you the way.

I would not feel that your choice amounts to turning your back on either your military friends or on God Himself. There may be something else that God wants you to do that involves neither military nor missionary work.

Your answers will come in prayer. Pray incessantly and have faith.
 
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hi bigredd, 90 days..hmm....still got some time to do some soul searching there i think. My advice for you would be to find out what happens if you go into missionary training sch (if u haven't) and see how your future would be like and check whether u'd like that. Do the same for the army. Make a good guess on which one would give more glory to God for the expansion of His kingdom.
 
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