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Hi,

I would like to get to know Christians here.

I am going to be honest, I have a girlfriend and she works long hours. When we are together I really enjoy her company but she has often been working long hours and studying.

This may made me feel tempted to cheat. For a while I was using the dating apps but the people there made me feel horrible. It seemed like everyone was just trying take advantage of me and had no regard for my hopes or aspirations, kind of ironic considering all things.

It made me think about God and how I often only turn to God when I am at rock bottom. I thought about how the other peoole made me feel and I realized I did not want to do this to God. I want to give the first fruits to God instead of just asking God for help at rock bottom because I want to reconcile the relationship I have with God to show that I have had a change of heart and that I really care the salvation God provides.

I am just wondering if someone can pray for me and if anyone here has had similar experiences.

Thank you
 

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Welcome to CF Earthbear :wave:

I'm sure that our members will pray for you and probably have experienced similar concerns.

May I also suggest that you post in the area Requests for Christian Advice where I'm sure you will receive help and support
 
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Hi,

I would like to get to know Christians here.

I am going to be honest, I have a girlfriend and she works long hours. When we are together I really enjoy her company but she has often been working long hours and studying.

This may made me feel tempted to cheat. For a while I was using the dating apps but the people there made me feel horrible. It seemed like everyone was just trying take advantage of me and had no regard for my hopes or aspirations, kind of ironic considering all things.

It made me think about God and how I often only turn to God when I am at rock bottom. I thought about how the other peoole made me feel and I realized I did not want to do this to God. I want to give the first fruits to God instead of just asking God for help at rock bottom because I want to reconcile the relationship I have with God to show that I have had a change of heart and that I really care the salvation God provides.

I am just wondering if someone can pray for me and if anyone here has had similar experiences.

Thank you
Welcome to our Group!
I hope you have fun here.
I enjoy posting here and the Friendship & Family atmosphere here.
 
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Hi,

I would like to get to know Christians here.

I am going to be honest, I have a girlfriend and she works long hours. When we are together I really enjoy her company but she has often been working long hours and studying.

This may made me feel tempted to cheat. For a while I was using the dating apps but the people there made me feel horrible. It seemed like everyone was just trying take advantage of me and had no regard for my hopes or aspirations, kind of ironic considering all things.

It made me think about God and how I often only turn to God when I am at rock bottom. I thought about how the other peoole made me feel and I realized I did not want to do this to God. I want to give the first fruits to God instead of just asking God for help at rock bottom because I want to reconcile the relationship I have with God to show that I have had a change of heart and that I really care the salvation God provides.

I am just wondering if someone can pray for me and if anyone here has had similar experiences.

Thank you
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Hi,

I would like to get to know Christians here.

I am going to be honest, I have a girlfriend and she works long hours. When we are together I really enjoy her company but she has often been working long hours and studying.

This may made me feel tempted to cheat. For a while I was using the dating apps but the people there made me feel horrible. It seemed like everyone was just trying take advantage of me and had no regard for my hopes or aspirations, kind of ironic considering all things.

It made me think about God and how I often only turn to God when I am at rock bottom. I thought about how the other peoole made me feel and I realized I did not want to do this to God. I want to give the first fruits to God instead of just asking God for help at rock bottom because I want to reconcile the relationship I have with God to show that I have had a change of heart and that I really care the salvation God provides.

I am just wondering if someone can pray for me and if anyone here has had similar experiences.

Thank you
Your questions are more appropriate here: Requests for Christian Advice

But welcome to CF! :)
 
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