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This is probably a dumb question, because I already know the answer..LOL...I asked this about 3 years ago...and im going to ask it again. Are women attracted to big guys? Some, most, not many?...I am a big weightlifter, and participate in strongman...Its popular now a days for the woman to like the pretty boy type...Is there any out there who like big guys?...:blush:
 

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This is probably a dumb question, because I already know the answer..LOL...I asked this about 3 years ago...and im going to ask it again. Are women attracted to big guys? Some, most, not many?...I am a big weightlifter, and participate in strongman...Its popular now a days for the woman to like the pretty boy type...Is there any out there who like big guys?...:blush:


Yes, some are.
 
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I do! :)

Of course, it probably has a lot to do with the fact that I am somewhat of an Amazon woman myself and I feel less self-conscious with a bigger guy.

In the end, though, it is more about his personality and values. My current bf is the only person I have dated seriously who is smaller than me and I'd have to say that it wouldn't matter how tall, short, big, or small he was, I'd still love him just the same. :blush: I do, however, tease him mercilessly about putting on my 5" platform shoes when we go out. :p
 
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I would much rather have a man that makes me feel like he could conquer the world if need be to keep me safe, then a skinny boy who couldnt fight off my cat. :)

Although, I am not a woman who is into looks very much, as long as a man treats me right, he will win over my heart :)
 
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What people find attractive is soooo subjective. I do, however, have one friend who simply won't date a guy who isn't a big, bulky bodybuilder. For every body type out there, there is somebody that will find it attractive.
 
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What people find attractive is soooo subjective. I do, however, have one friend who simply won't date a guy who isn't a big, bulky bodybuilder. For every body type out there, there is somebody that will find it attractive.
Exactly! That's what I LOVE about God's creation.. We're all different; yet we all LIKE different things. So it fits together awesomely! :ebil:
 
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I'm not attracted to the really RIPPED type guys; you know, where you see all their veins and tendons and their skin looks like it might tear open...eek. Some guys have very defined, big muscles but very small or average frames; that's not very attractive to me. But I love the guys who are just plain gigantic through the chest and shoulders and neck and all; naturally large-boned, big-framed guys.

This is an example of what I don't like. Look at his lower legs. They're completely normal-sized, and almost skinny. This is a skinny guy who's beefed up his muscles.

http://aolsearch.aol.com/aol/imageD.../BodyBuilder.JPG&b=image?query=body%20builder This is my friend, Matt :D He's a bodybuilder, but as you can see, he's not just a mass of grotesquely bulbous muscles, he's a genuinely BIG dude, built like a tank. THAT is hawt, IMO :D
http://aolsearch.aol.com/aol/imageD.../BodyBuilder.JPG&b=image?query=body%20builder
 
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