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Let me ask it like this: What makes the difference as to why some do refuse and some do not refuse. And when you answer that, ask it again of THAT reason. Like a child, "but, WHY?" HOW is it, that one person chooses this way, and another chooses that? Mere chance?
No, it is the individual's miraculous God given, free will ability to choose(this means we are in the image of God), but do you believe God does not have the power to grant mature adults this ability?
Neverminding the self-contradictory notion implied by your construction, you still have not answered my question.

Let me expand, since you pretend you haven't only kicked the can down the road: Even if you are right, that God gave every individual the miraculous free will ability to choose, what makes the difference, then, why some choose this way and some choose that?
 
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Consider then, the real possibility that that is the state in which we all live—none of us really want it (no matter how we feel)— and the difference is not that God forces anything on us, but changes us. —Not, presents us with choices according to our fallen state, but "raises us from death to life", by "installing" his Holy Spirit within us, through whom we are then endowed with that love, by utter Grace freely given to us, "freely" returned. (And no, by that use of "freely" I rather obviously don't mean to imply "of our own uncaused will".)
I like the way you present a contradiction “…the difference is not that God forces anything on us, but changes us…” while the change is being forced on us because God is forcing us to like the change.

The biggest issue with this doctrine is the fact “God is Love”, so God’s Love would compel God to force this change on everyone if it were possible.

Even in our sinful disposition we can still for sinful (selfish) reason be willing to accept pure undeserved charity as charity, thus we are accepting God’s unconditional, undeserved forgiveness (Love) for selfish reasons.
That whole interchange between you and @Hentenza depended on the notion that salvation (i.e. Godly type Love) is attained by those returning it, which is a bogus notion, not supported by scripture, unless assumed before reading scripture.
Read Luke 7: 36 When one of the Pharisees invited Jesus to have dinner with him, he went to the Pharisee’s house and reclined at the table. 37 A woman in that town who lived a sinful life learned that Jesus was eating at the Pharisee’s house, so she came there with an alabaster jar of perfume. 38 As she stood behind him at his feet weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears. Then she wiped them with her hair, kissed them and poured perfume on them.

39 When the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, “If this man were a prophet, he would know who is touching him and what kind of woman she is—that she is a sinner.”

40 Jesus answered him, “Simon, I have something to tell you.”

“Tell me, teacher,” he said.

41 “Two people owed money to a certain moneylender. One owed him five hundred denarii,[c] and the other fifty. 42 Neither of them had the money to pay him back, so he forgave the debts of both. Now which of them will love him more?”

43 Simon replied, “I suppose the one who had the bigger debt forgiven.”

“You have judged correctly,” Jesus said.

44 Then he turned toward the woman and said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. 45 You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. 46 You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. 47 Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little.”

48 Then Jesus said to her, “Your sins are forgiven.”

49 The other guests began to say among themselves, “Who is this who even forgives sins?”

50 Jesus said to the woman, “Your faith has saved you; go in peace.”

The lesson we can learn is he, who accepts God’s forgiven of an unbelievable huge debt (created by his sin) will automatically be gifted a huge Love (Godly type Love). After you have this Love the Spirit can come dwell within you.
 
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Mark Quayle said:
Let me ask it like this: What makes the difference as to why some do refuse and some do not refuse. And when you answer that, ask it again of THAT reason. Like a child, "but, WHY?" HOW is it, that one person chooses this way, and another chooses that? Mere chance?

Neverminding the self-contradictory notion implied by your construction, you still have not answered my question.

Let me expand, since you pretend you haven't only kicked the can down the road: Even if you are right, that God gave every individual the miraculous free will ability to choose, what makes the difference, then, why some choose this way and some choose that?
It is their choice miraculously coming from within them (this choice is like God's choices). God is gifting us with the greatest gift possible in that we become like God having His Love.
 
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No, it is the individual's miraculous God given, free will ability to choose(this means we are in the image of God), but do you believe God does not have the power to grant mature adults this ability?
Your god can't covert sinners.
 
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No, it is the individual's miraculous God given, free will ability to choose(this means we are in the image of God), but do you believe God does not have the power to grant mature adults this ability?
Do people have the free will to stop sinning?
 
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Your god can't covert sinners.
Humans are not robots that can just be reprogrammed. We are made in the "image of God". Just as I cannot overpower your free will and convert you, God cannot have you remain a free will agent and overpower your free will to "Love" Him.
 
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Do people have the free will to stop sinning?
Prior to having the indwelling Holy Spirit and Godly type Love, a person cannot keep from sinning, but they can keep from doing a sin at a particular time thus making them responsible for their sins.
Sin has purpose for the nonbelieving sinner in that they need God's help and obtain Godly type Love through forgiveness, The lesson we learn from Luke 7:37-50 he, who accepts God’s forgiven of an unbelievable huge debt (created by his sin) will automatically be gifted a huge Love (Godly type Love). After you have this Love the Spirit can come dwell within you.
The good news is after becoming indwelled with the Spirit you can keep from sinning, but you can also quench the Spirit and go about doing your will.
 
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Prior to having the indwelling Holy Spirit and Godly type Love, a person cannot keep from sinning, but they can keep from doing a sin at a particular time thus making them responsible for their sins.
Sin has purpose for the nonbelieving sinner in that they need God's help and obtain Godly type Love through forgiveness, The lesson we learn from Luke 7:37-50 he, who accepts God’s forgiven of an unbelievable huge debt (created by his sin) will automatically be gifted a huge Love (Godly type Love). After you have this Love the Spirit can come dwell within you.
The good news is after becoming indwelled with the Spirit you can keep from sinning, but you can also quench the Spirit and go about doing your will.
How does this verses work with your theory?

“If we say that we have no sin, we are deceiving ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous, so that He will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say that we have not sinned, we make Him a liar and His word is not in us.”
‭‭1 John‬ ‭1‬:‭8‬-‭10‬ ‭NASB2020‬‬

To be honest, your post is a contradiction. On one hand you state that we can stop sinning with the dwelling of the Spirit but on the other hand you say that we can “quench” the Spirit. So the question I asked remains unanswered. Do people have the free will to stop sinning?

Let me add another component to our conversation and I’m going to use the obvious example. Did Pharaoh had the free will to accept the love of God?
 
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I like the way you present a contradiction “…the difference is not that God forces anything on us, but changes us…” while the change is being forced on us because God is forcing us to like the change.
Would you accuse God of forcing you to be born the first time? Why should it be any different for your rebirth? Why should he consult you or ask for your permission, if all he's doing is raising you from death to life?
The biggest issue with this doctrine is the fact “God is Love”, so God’s Love would compel God to force this change on everyone if it were possible.
That's home-made. It isn't Bible. It is equivocation.
Even in our sinful disposition we can still for sinful (selfish) reason be willing to accept pure undeserved charity as charity, thus we are accepting God’s unconditional, undeserved forgiveness (Love) for selfish reasons.
More equivocation. More home-made explanation the Bible doesn't use.
Read Luke 7: 36 When one of the Pharisees invited Jesus to have dinner with him, he went to the Pharisee’s house and reclined at the table. 37 A woman in that town who lived a sinful life learned that Jesus was eating at the Pharisee’s house, so she came there with an alabaster jar of perfume. 38 As she stood behind him at his feet weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears. Then she wiped them with her hair, kissed them and poured perfume on them.

39 When the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, “If this man were a prophet, he would know who is touching him and what kind of woman she is—that she is a sinner.”

40 Jesus answered him, “Simon, I have something to tell you.”

“Tell me, teacher,” he said.

41 “Two people owed money to a certain moneylender. One owed him five hundred denarii,[c] and the other fifty. 42 Neither of them had the money to pay him back, so he forgave the debts of both. Now which of them will love him more?”

43 Simon replied, “I suppose the one who had the bigger debt forgiven.”

“You have judged correctly,” Jesus said.

44 Then he turned toward the woman and said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. 45 You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. 46 You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. 47 Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little.”

48 Then Jesus said to her, “Your sins are forgiven.”

49 The other guests began to say among themselves, “Who is this who even forgives sins?”

50 Jesus said to the woman, “Your faith has saved you; go in peace.”

The lesson we can learn is he, who accepts God’s forgiven of an unbelievable huge debt (created by his sin) will automatically be gifted a huge Love (Godly type Love). After you have this Love the Spirit can come dwell within you.
No. It is the Spirit that dwells within you that gives you this love. Look at verse 47: "...her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown." Let me paraphrase: Her many sins have been forgiven (past tense, accomplished) — as demonstrated by the fact of her great love.

You continue to hinge repentance, forgiveness, and salvation—one's eternal destiny—on the flippant will of man, and not on God's Grace. What we do for good, we do because God does it in us. "We do so because it IS so."
 
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Humans are not robots that can just be reprogrammed. We are made in the "image of God". Just as I cannot overpower your free will and convert you, God cannot have you remain a free will agent and overpower your free will to "Love" Him.
So drop the self-contradictory notion, and instead just call it "will".
 
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How does this verses work with your theory?

“If we say that we have no sin, we are deceiving ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous, so that He will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say that we have not sinned, we make Him a liar and His word is not in us.”
‭‭1 John‬ ‭1‬:‭8‬-‭10‬ ‭NASB2020‬‬

To be honest, your post is a contradiction. On one hand you state that we can stop sinning with the dwelling of the Spirit but on the other hand you say that we can “quench” the Spirit. So the question I asked remains unanswered. Do people have the free will to stop sinning?

Let me add another component to our conversation and I’m going to use the obvious example. Did Pharaoh had the free will to accept the love of God?
Free will does not keep you from sinning. We have with the knowledge of good and evil tons of ways to sin.
The indwelling Holy Spirit cannot be involved in sinning so for Spirit filled Christians we have to quench the Spirit in order to sin, but since we still have free will, we can of our own choice decide to quench the Spirit.
John is saying we all previously have sinned which is true, but look at the next chapter: 1 John 2:1My dear children, I write this to you so that you will not sin. But if anybody does sin, we have an advocate with the Father—Jesus Christ, the Righteous One.
It is not "but when" since it is "but if..." so John is not saying you have to sin in the future, just you have sinned in the past.

As far as Pharaoh goes: God allows or does stuff which will cause some to repent of their own free will and others to become hardened (their choice), so God is hardening some and solving others with the same actions. There also comes a time after repeated refusals there is nothing more God could do that would solvent their hearts and so their free will ability can be taken from them and the hardened heart rules them.
 
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How is the caused existence of somebody uncaused to do whatever they do, not self-contradictory?
God has the power to make a beings (He being, their cause for existing) to have limited free will ability. God is not completely programming them to make choices one certain way, these choices are up to them.
 
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Would you accuse God of forcing you to be born the first time? Why should it be any different for your rebirth? Why should he consult you or ask for your permission, if all he's doing is raising you from death to life?
God is responsible for my physical birth and providing me with the opportunity to become like He is, a Lover of others. The “rebirth” was the opportunity before me, but it was up to me, for I am not some robot God programmed to love Him, but I get to choose to accept His Love and thus Love Him (Luke 7).

If I do not have a free will choice than the “love” I would have for God and others would be an instinctive type of love almost like a “hate” compared to Godly type Love.
That's home-made. It isn't Bible. It is equivocation.
Just call it completely Logical, because that is what it is. It is illogical to think God is arbitrary and/or unfair/unjust with some people.
More equivocation. More home-made explanation the Bible doesn't use.
Thank you, again pure logic.
No. It is the Spirit that dwells within you that gives you this love. Look at verse 47: "...her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown." Let me paraphrase: Her many sins have been forgiven (past tense, accomplished) — as demonstrated by the fact of her great love.
Your rephrasing does not mention the Spirit.

The Spirit is not being mentioned here, and this is prior to the indwelling portion of the Spirit being available (it is before Pentecost). Love is being talked about only and Love comes from being and accepting forgiveness.
You continue to hinge repentance, forgiveness, and salvation—one's eternal destiny—on the flippant will of man, and not on God's Grace. What we do for good, we do because God does it in us. "We do so because it IS so."
Not at all! God forgives happens first (nonbelieving sinful humans can only humbly accept that forgiveness as pure undeserved charity), repentance and salvation, comes after you have the God given gift of Love.
 
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God is responsible for my physical birth and providing me with the opportunity to become like He is, a Lover of others. The “rebirth” was the opportunity before me, but it was up to me, for I am not some robot God programmed to love Him, but I get to choose to accept His Love and thus Love Him (Luke 7).

If I do not have a free will choice than the “love” I would have for God and others would be an instinctive type of love almost like a “hate” compared to Godly type Love.

Just call it completely Logical, because that is what it is. It is illogical to think God is arbitrary and/or unfair/unjust with some people.

Thank you, again pure logic.

Your rephrasing does not mention the Spirit.

The Spirit is not being mentioned here, and this is prior to the indwelling portion of the Spirit being available (it is before Pentecost). Love is being talked about only and Love comes from being and accepting forgiveness.

Not at all! God forgives happens first (nonbelieving sinful humans can only humbly accept that forgiveness as pure undeserved charity), repentance and salvation, comes after you have the God given gift of Love.
According to your structure, their accepting of that forgiveness makes the difference as to their eternal condition, no? Do I misunderstand and you are a universalist?
 
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God is responsible for my physical birth and providing me with the opportunity to become like He is, a Lover of others. The “rebirth” was the opportunity before me, but it was up to me, for I am not some robot God programmed to love Him, but I get to choose to accept His Love and thus Love Him (Luke 7).
You were DEAD in your sins and trespasses, my man! Ephesians 2:1 in context
You were "UNABLE" to accept his gift, which accepting logically would "please" him Romans 8:8 in context

You are eisegetically and synergistically imposing YOUR notion and use of the concept, 'love', upon the gospel, and denying plain scriptural statements and doctrines.
 
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