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TheManeki said:There's a great short story by Neil Gaiman collected in Fragile Things that (among other things) has Hell being where we have to confront our own self-deceptions and fully realize the hurts we did to others. (If you're Catholic, it sounds a lot like purgatory, perhaps.) A powerful idea.
Well, it's a very complex concept. I do not believe in eternal torture, I believe that people are separated from God until they repent.
The hell described by Dante and the Greeks (Sheol) just seems so unfair.
I believe "hell" is the world around us, where so many people suffer on a daily basis. Hell is the extent to which all of us live lives somewhat (or entirely) estranged from God. Hell is not something God has made, ordained or done to anyone. Hell is what we do to each other, it is something we've brought on ourselves.
I tend to view God as the only truely existant thing. The rest of us are stuck in a sort of limbo. The more we exist, the more we're like God, the happier and better we are. Evil is simply perverting the good stuff God created. With evil, a person lessens themself.
I don't view heaven and hell as seperate places, but difference states of mind within the same non-place. When a person dies, "hell" is the realization of one's own iniquity, seeing the distance from the One thing that is actually capable of caring for something so fallen, and the guilt of knowing how much one has failed. Heaven is the joy of being forgiven.
I believe in limited annihiliationism, some people just die.
I don't believe in hell
I'm swiping this from here http://www.christianforums.com/t2642693-wiki-orthodox-church.html as it says it better than I could:
The Orthodox teaching is that Heaven and Hell are the same "place" , standing in front of God. The Judgment is individual perception, determined by one's relationship to God. This perception will determine whether or not one experiences it as paradise (Heaven) or agony (Hell) eternally .
It's simple in my mind. The fiery place of torture rules by a man in a red suit with horns, a tail, and a pitchfork does not exist.
I doubt hell exists at all. There are many good people out there who happen to be non-Christian, and I don't think a loving God would send them to a place of eternal torment.
I do believe in some sort of afterlife though. What that afterlife is, I'm not really sure.
The Cheat said:Why do you believe this? Is this in the Bible anywhere?
The Cheat said:This isn't anywhere in Scripture.
The Cheat said:What do you think happened to Hitler?
The Cheat said:Again, not in the Bible.
Me neither. I think God looks in people's hearts, and not being a christian doesn't equal hating God IMO.Most importantly: I do not, and never will, believe that the way to get there is not being Christian. To say my entire family will go to Hell just because they're not Christian is wildly offensive to me, even if many Christians demand it of their faith.
Wow... I'd never heard that before... that may be the scariest definition of Hell I've ever heard... So maybe it's right...I'm swiping this from here http://www.christianforums.com/t2642693-wiki-orthodox-church.html as it says it better than I could:
The Orthodox teaching is that Heaven and Hell are the same "place" , standing in front of God. The Judgment is individual perception, determined by one's relationship to God. This perception will determine whether or not one experiences it as paradise (Heaven) or agony (Hell) eternally .
Can we talk about hell? What is hell? Thanks!
I grew up with an alcoholic/addict mother who rotated pharmacies to keep her supply of drugs, and learned how to make do or do without because a good bit of the family income went to pills and booze; and I grew up with an alcoholic father who also battered; and as an adult chose partners who were either alcoholic or addicts who battered because I thought that if someone hit me, that meant they cared for me -- and after being taken to the cleaners for $31,000 by an ex who maxed out all our credit cards, added to loans which we held together, compulsively collected and filled our house with his junk and systematically threw out everything I owned of value (including my recital tapes and my high school and college diplomas) -- I can say I have been to Hell and come back to talk about the experience.
Which is also why I get really annoyed with fundies who say, "You'd better change your lifestyle or you're going to HA-YELL!" Well: I have been to "HA-YELL" and I have changed my lifestyle; and the proof that I have had a true "lifestyle change" is that my current partner is not an alcoholic or an addict and does not hit me!
God bless you.I grew up with an alcoholic/addict mother who rotated pharmacies to keep her supply of drugs, and learned how to make do or do without because a good bit of the family income went to pills and booze; and I grew up with an alcoholic father who also battered; and as an adult chose partners who were either alcoholic or addicts who battered because I thought that if someone hit me, that meant they cared for me -- and after being taken to the cleaners for $31,000 by an ex who maxed out all our credit cards, added to loans which we held together, compulsively collected and filled our house with his junk and systematically threw out everything I owned of value (including my recital tapes and my high school and college diplomas) -- I can say I have been to Hell and come back to talk about the experience.
Which is also why I get really annoyed with fundies who say, "You'd better change your lifestyle or you're going to HA-YELL!" Well: I have been to "HA-YELL" and I have changed my lifestyle; and the proof that I have had a true "lifestyle change" is that my current partner is not an alcoholic or an addict and does not hit me!

Can we talk about hell? What is hell? Thanks!
i can relate..only i am still stuck in hell and have no control over it. i have lived in a hell of some sorts for 99% of my 38 yrs of life. If theres something worse than this in the afterlife..ill be shocked. I sure hope im living out some bad karma..cuz i have no other explanation for all the constant suffering.I grew up with an alcoholic/addict mother who rotated pharmacies to keep her supply of drugs, and learned how to make do or do without because a good bit of the family income went to pills and booze; and I grew up with an alcoholic father who also battered; and as an adult chose partners who were either alcoholic or addicts who battered because I thought that if someone hit me, that meant they cared for me -- and after being taken to the cleaners for $31,000 by an ex who maxed out all our credit cards, added to loans which we held together, compulsively collected and filled our house with his junk and systematically threw out everything I owned of value (including my recital tapes and my high school and college diplomas) -- I can say I have been to Hell and come back to talk about the experience.
Which is also why I get really annoyed with fundies who say, "You'd better change your lifestyle or you're going to HA-YELL!" Well: I have been to "HA-YELL" and I have changed my lifestyle; and the proof that I have had a true "lifestyle change" is that my current partner is not an alcoholic or an addict and does not hit me!