Could a Christian try and explain this one for me? (I was a hardcore Christian for 12 years and I can't think of a good answer)
Well, I'm not a Christian but I will try and give (God willing) a Muslim answer to those questions.
1. God is perfectly just, and hell is a just punishment for our sins.
While it's true that Al'lah (swt) is "perfectly just", the way many people often express this is (IMHO) very misleading - as if there is some external standard (to Him) of "justice" which His works happen to conform to. This isn't the case - what is "just"
is exactly what He wills.
Al'lah (swt) has decreed punishment for what He forbids, both in this life and the next, most especially for the one sin He has declared He
will not forgive in the afterlife (idolatry.) So it is "just", in so far as it is what the originator and absolute owner of all things wills.
2. Hell is a place of infinite torture.
This is incorrect for two reasons. First, permanent consignment to the Hellfire is only for one offence - ascribing partners to Al'lah (swt). If He so wills (all things are His), He may forgive anything else.
Second, the term is incorrect -
infinite would mean that the Hellfire (and one's stay in it) not only will not have a conclusion but also that it
did not have a beginning. Well, that's incorrect - only Al'lah (swt) is "non-finite" in any sense.
3. We humans, on earth, have lived finite lives and commited a finite amount of sins.
See #2 - the punishment is not "infinite". Further, who is to say what is a "just" punishment? You? Me?
So, for those of us going to hell, we have this simple equation:
infinite torture = finite sin
Again, the terms are wrong. Further, the object for which one will be punished unceasingly
as a divine promise is only one thing, and it's the most important thing - giving over to creatures what belongs only to Al'lah (swt), thus negating the entire purpose for one's existence, which the Qur'an states plainly is nothing but to worship Al'lah (swt.) This is worse than murder, worse than anything else.
Yet the punishment for this most heinous sin, is reserved exclusively to Al'lah (swt) alone (quite unlike murder, which courts try.) Thus so long as the
kaf-fir (one who hides the truth from himself and otherS) does not do harm to the Muslim, there is no mandate to try to effect some kind of earthly prosecution for this sin. But the flip side of that is that should one use his entire life pointlessly, not taking advantange of the amnesty that it provided for him to correct himself (including God's prohibition that those who enjoin good and forbid evil should attack him as they would a murderer or a rapist), he will
never leave the Hellfire, which is as awful as Paradise is wonderful.
It's as just as gravity - it's how it is, and it makes sense certainly if you consider the enormity of it all. As for the belief that any sin is sworn by Al'lah (swt) to involve unceasing punishment in Hell (what most Christians seem to believe), I won't offer any defense of that for it's not something I believe.
And saying that that is just the way God works will NOT be an acceptable or moral answer.
Isn't that like faulting gravity, or the sunrise? Some things really are a matter of just "dealing with it". That is what seperates the Muslim (one who surrenders to the will of Al'lah) from the disbeliever (who does not submit himself to his maker.) For all of the sophistry that atheists employ in their various arguments against the belief in the one, Almigthy and Living God, when it comes right down to it the root of their infidelity is that they don't say "thy will be done", but "
my will be done!" Well, have it your way - if you like ice skating up hill, that's between you and your Maker. Just don't be shocked when you lose.