my husband does not believe in the gifts of the spirit because he thinks that we shouldn't ask god for these gifts because we should be satisfied with god alone. he will not consider a church unless he's researched the background of that church and where they get their beliefs from. i've printed a lot of information on the background of the PH church several months ago, but he has yet to read it. so i'm not sure what to do. i've kind of settled on the CRC, though he says he doesn't want me to settle. but he says that he really wants to go to a presbyterian church. but if i had to go there, i would not be happy. i honestly don't know what to do in this situation.