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Have you always been a Reformed Christian?

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Predestination is a hang-up for me. The whole thing is really but I just want to look into it myself.
 
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It's interesting that you, R C Sproul and even the author of a book I am reading were formerly not Calvinist. Also it's good that you have productive discussions. For me there's questions on both "sides" of the theology.

I don't technically label myself as Arminian and I don't think other Independent Baptists do either. But, we're not calvinist. The author of the book I'm reading is Sean Michael Lucas and he was an Independent Baptist before becoming a Presbyterian.
 
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Predestination is a hang-up for me. The whole thing is really but I just want to look into it myself.
I would argue that it’s hard to avoid a moderate kind of predestination, e.g. one paired with compatibilism, as long as you hold a traditional concept of omniscience and omnipotence. Most objections to predestination from traditional Christians seem to me to come from people who don’t understand compatibilism. I admit it’s an odd idea to wrap your mind around, but I think in the end it makes sense.

I think you’ll find that modern theology is tending to accept a weaker concept of omnipotence than traditional, often as part of panentheism. The only coherent alternative I can see to something like that or open theism is that God has voluntarily given up some of his control. But I’m not sure whether that really works.
 
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I'm just finding I've got a lot of questions and that I can't just look to Calvinist sources to answer them because it would be baised. The thing is I can't find non-Calvinist sources about it all very easily. I did find this: The 5 points that led me to leave Calvinism
 
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For the Arminian position, try Free Open Courses! – Wesley Biblical Seminary (The title supplied by CF is misleading. This is the Society for Evangelical Arminians.) But it's unusual to find coherent presentations from people who don't have some position on the issue, so looking for something unbiased is hard.

The following is an interesting presentation of the logic of the situation. This is the closest I've seen to an unbiased presentation: Predestination II | Presbyterian Mission Agency

Compatibilism is a key issue. Wikipedia has a reasonable treatment, Compatibilism - Wikipedia, though I originally got it from Jonathan Edwards. Here's a treatment in a more Christian context: A Plea for Calvinistic Compatibilism - Credo Magazine
 
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As a Christian I have always been a "Calvinist" but not always Reformed. Many times over the last 5 years I've been tempted to leave Reformed theology and the Baptist church, at some point I still might, but for now I'm staying put and trying to faithful to Christ by serving the local body.
 
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Why are you tempted to leave Reformed theology and the Baptist church? Also what is your plan if you did leave?
 
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Why are you tempted to leave Reformed theology and the Baptist church? Also what is your plan if you did leave?
I love liturgical worship and find it helpful in preparing my soul for prayer and worship. The ritual of it, smells and bells. Not that I plan to leaven the Baptist church but if I did I could find myself among the Lutherans. I have a kneeler in my study that I use for private prayer and devotions, it has served me well so far, the temptation to leave has abated.

Yours in the Lord,

jm
 
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Ah ok. I see what you mean but that stuff is not my preference. I do sometimes kneel to pray and I probably should more. I know you mean a piece of furniture designed for kneeling on though?

I recently got a 30 Minute prayer pdf from an Independent Baptist church and most of it revolves around preparing to pray. I don't think I can post it though because you have to sign up to the newsletter to be emailed the pdf. I thought Lutherans believed that Baptism saves. I just read they don't?
 
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You can subscribe for the prayer guide if you want and then cancel it: PaulEChapman.com
It's on the top banner, difficult to miss. It can be adjusted to 15 minutes or an hour or however long really. I realise you probably have a routine but I thought I'd send anyway.
 
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Yes.

White Oak Church Kneelers made my Philip Morley Furniture


The bodily gestures usually observed in prayer, such as kneeling and uncovering of the head (Calv. in Acts 20:36), are exercises by which we attempt to rise to higher veneration of God. (3.20.33) - Calvin's Institutes
 
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That's very nice! Is that Japense style joinery? I'm actually looking or have been for a while to go back and become a Joiner here in the UK. I had an undiagnosed illness though which has mostly been dealt with now.
 
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That's very nice! Is that Japense style joinery? I'm actually looking or have been for a while to go back and become a Joiner here in the UK. I had an undiagnosed illness though which has mostly been dealth with now.
I wrongly wedged through tenons were only Japanese. I don't think they are.
 
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Hello again Aspzan, I wanted to jump in on this conversation because, sadly, I believe that the anti-Reformed bias is overwhelmingly stronger than the pro-Reformed bias is, so what you are seeking (a truly non-biased understanding of Calvinism from an Arminian source, may not be available).

Dr. Sproul can be a very helpful source, because even though he is pro-Reformed, of course, he never insinuates that those who are not Calvinist are also not Christian (because they are not Reformed). The other thing is, www.ligonier.org has opened up all of Dr. Sproul's teaching series so that you can stream them for free right now (it's their way of helping out during the Coronavirus sheltering at home).

Perhaps the best thing to do is to look to the Bible and find your answers there when you read or hear something, from either side, that doesn't seem right to you somehow. And we'll be here to help out as well, so please don't hesitate to come back with any thoughts that you'd like to discuss with us, or questions that come up about Calvinism that you'd like have answered.

God bless you!

--David
p.s. - I just noticed that Ligonier has also made their teaching series study guides available for free (in download form). These are some of the very best of study guides I have ever seen or used, so I would recommend them to you as well.
 
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Thanks. I especially like the advice about looking to the Bible! I'm glad to hear that he never insinuated that non-Reformed are not Christian. I remember reading something along the lines of non-Reformed being unsaved because they're not completely trusting God. I don't think this is probably the majority opinion though? If I remember right it was talking about other Protestants.

EDIT: I know a lot of Baptists don't consider themselves Protestant
 
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Do you know anything about UK Presbyterian Denominations? I like the look of the Free Presbyterian Church of Ulster. They have a US branch btw. EDIT: I don't like the more political side of it though.
 
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Do you know anything about UK Presbyterian Denominations? I like the look of the Free Presbyterian Church of Ulster. They have a US branch btw. EDIT: I don't like the more political side of it though.
Chapter 23
 
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I'm probably missing something obvious but why did you send that?
The chapter explains the Presbyterian view of government. It's in reference to the last line of your last post.
 
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