Without a playbook it's all just chaos. That's a secular game.
Maybe that is why we differ so much. You look at the Bible as a law book, one to condemn this person and that each day here at cf. You use the Bible as a weapon against others. Rarely have I seen posts of inspiration, comfort, insight, forgiveness, or rejoicing, but rather, commands that other people repent, mostly, to you.
I view the Bible as an inspiration to overcoming the human condition to prepare one for a higher divinity, prepared to leave my ego, my hostility, my bitterness, my vengeful nature, at the door to enter the kingdom, and live otherwise. And I continue, with God's help, to starve that part of me, making it weaker each day, to realize my true Buddha self, the true soul whom God created.
Christ taught that if one loved God with their whole heart, and loved their neighbor as themselves, all the laws would be fulfilled. They wouldn't search as Pharisees, lawyers, looking for a loophole, but rather, act in love. It's that simple of a message. I'm unclear why you are so insistent to make it more complicated, unless you are trying to justify something that you know in your heart isn't right.
It is written on our heart. That's scriptural, and if one has to run to the bible to find out, if it is wrong to harrass someone, bully someone, steal from someone, gossip about someone, kill someone, or lie to someone, or wants to know when it is ok, looking for loopholes in the bible using literal interpretation, then one is simply ignoring what is on their heart, has dulled the voice of God in their own disobedience.