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ebia

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I think it depends on the person. I hated my father because he hurt me on a regular basis.
While that makes it understandable to hate him, I'm not sure that makes it right to hate him.
 
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All depends I guess.

It is morally wrong however to accuse all those with whom you have political disagreements of being motivated by "hate". It is a reprehensible tactic because it resonates with less informed, more emotional segments of society who, for various reasons, are incapable of making rational decisions. As such it hurts society as a whole, including those who are targets of the tactic.
 
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:sigh: such is the human condition, I guess. While a human can feel much more compassionate and fufilled trying to live a life free of hate, i must argue that no human was free of good and bad things, it is all part of being human. Jesus, Buddha, and other religious figures that take the form of men all experienced some form of dislike or other human flaw, often before finding enlightenment in forgiveness. But that is not to say one must be a doormat. The trick is to live as compassionately as you can, in my view.
 
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Interesting question.

In one sense, I don't think we can say it is morally wrong to hate someone, because hate is simply an emotive response. On the other hand, I think we do possibly have a moral obligation as individuals to act out of love rather than hate, and to try to cultivate virtues within ourselves.

I don't think it is really wrong to hate a thing, though, whether it be something abstract like injustice or the colour red or something tangible like asparagus or a particular wallpaper.

Real and passionate hatred, though, can be very destructive in my opinion.
 
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