Habitual Liar

[TheZach]

I have someone in my life who is a habitual liar. Her lies have resulted in the criminal charges of someone and I know shes lying. Even though I'm not a witness I'm sure shes lying because she lied about things I know shes lying about when she made the police report.

I want to be her friend, because shes going to need friends after its proven she lies - but I don't know what to do.

 

[wonderwaleye]

I have someone in my life who is a habitual liar. Her lies have resulted in the criminal charges of someone and I know shes lying. Even though I'm not a witness I'm sure shes lying because she lied about things I know shes lying about when she made the police report.

I want to be her friend, because shes going to need friends after its proven she lies - but I don't know what to do.

You do exactly what JESUS told you to do:



GO FORTH UNTO THE ENTIRE WORLD AND PREACE THE GOSPEL


You do know the GOSPEL don't you?





If you are going to be part of the KINGDOM of ALMIGHTY GOD you MUST GIVE IT ALL TO GOD.



GOD demands that you give HIM your WHOLE heart, mind, strength, and soul. That means you go in prayer and tell GOD that you will do this and from that moment on seek GOD in all your decisions. After this is complete GOD will know. For HE searches the heart. HE will then send HIS HOLY SPIRIT ( ANOINTED-BORN AGAIN- SAVED ). For it is then that you shall receive the MISSION GOD has for just you and supply all your needs, even what you have not the ability to have.



Pick up GOD'S ROAD MAP to the KINGDOM of ALMIGHTY GOD ( BIBLE ) and start reading the NEW TESTIMENT till the next time you read it you will already know what IT'S going to say. For then it's locked in your heart to draw from for the rest of your life. You will NEVER be sorry you did.



Do yourself a BIG FAVOR and Start right now!!!




LOVE


steven

 

[TheZach]

Well I don't exactly have time to read the entire new testament before some innocent person falls for this.

Any scriptural references would be good.

 

[heron]

I want to be her friend, because shes going to need friends after its proven she lies - but I don't know what to do.

Oh Zach, it sounds like you like her and this empathy is going to get you into a bind.

Is someone going to suffer because of her lies? Your first focus should be on protecting the innocent. Will the court system spend thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours to find out the truth? Local governments are already struggling under economic collapse. If you know the truth, make sure lies do not win.

Ex 23:1
You shall not utter a false report; You shall not put your hand with the wicked, to become a violent witness.

De 5:20
And you shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.

Pr 25:18
A man who gives false witness against his neighbor is a maul, and a sword and a sharp arrow.

When an innocent person befriends a liar, the liar sometimes uses that person to maintain their lies. You might find yourself being pushed into a false alibi, helping her appear innocent, or incriminated in her next set of lies. Be careful. But also, actively care about the people who will suffer. Stand for something.

 

[unity777]

alright the truth shall always prevail,now is she lying because she has strong feelings against this person and wants to cause him or her harm,is she lying because she fears
this person or maybe to get attention or maybe just simple revenge and are you 100%
sure she is lying maybe this time shes not crying wolf we cant always be a stern judge but as a friend of hers do not abandon her now or even if she is lying,but pray ask GOD with a sincere heart to reveal the truth and then go to speak with her and as you speak the truth shall be revealed love breaks all boundaries and this is no different
good luck and GOD bless
dave

 

[wonderwaleye]

alright the truth shall always prevail,now is she lying because she has strong feelings against this person and wants to cause him or her harm,is she lying because she fears
this person or maybe to get attention or maybe just simple revenge and are you 100%
sure she is lying maybe this time shes not crying wolf we cant always be a stern judge but as a friend of hers do not abandon her now or even if she is lying,but pray ask GOD with a sincere heart to reveal the truth and then go to speak with her and as you speak the truth shall be revealed love breaks all boundaries and this is no different
good luck and GOD bless
dave

If we are to believe in order to be SAVED then we MUST be willing to abide by GOD'S WILL:



Proverbs 3:5


Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding




2 Thessalonians
Chapter 3


14
If anyone does not obey our word as expressed in this letter, take note of this person not to associate with him, that he may be put to shame.




15
Do not regard him as an enemy but admonish him as a brother.




16
May the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times and in every way. The Lord be with all of you.






Ephesians
Chapter 5


6 Let no one deceive you with empty arguments, for because of these things the wrath of God is coming upon the disobedient.


7 So do not be associated with them.


8 For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light,


9 for light produces every kind of goodness and righteousness and truth.


10 Try to learn what is pleasing to the Lord.


11 Take no part in the fruitless works of darkness; rather expose them,


12 for it is shameful even to mention the things done by them in secret; 13 but everything exposed by the light becomes visible,


14 for everything that becomes visible is light. Therefore, it says: "Awake, O sleeper, and arise from the dead, and Christ will give you light."


15 Watch carefully then how you live, not as foolish persons but as wise,


16 making the most of the opportunity, because the days are evil.


17 Therefore, do not continue in ignorance, but try to understand what is the will of the Lord.


LOVE


steven

 

[hikingchick77]

Pray hard about this one...God wants us to befriend the weak and those who need friends, but he doesn't want us to cast our pearls before swine!

 

[K9_Trainer]

Be her friend only if it's not going to come between you and God.

It's possible your love and friendship could help you show her God and correct her in a loving manner. But it's equally possible that she will use you, or try to get you to cover up her lies. Don't let her bring you down while your trying to lift her up. Show her Christ's love, but keep your distance emotionally and stay strong in Christ.

My prayers go out to both you and her

 

[Elijah2]

Zach, don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Cor. 6:14), and don't allow yourself to be deceived. Your friend is mocking our Lord Jesus Christ by lieing, and for whatever she sows, she will reap (Gal. 6:7).

You speak out to your friend and let her know your feelings, but you don't support here, and you let it run its course.

Blessings.

 

[ServantOfYeshua]

I have also dealt with this issue. It's a hard call because you don't want to be keeping a record of wrongs, you want to forgive, but at the same time you can't allow your friend to keep spiraling out of control in this stronghold. You should endeavor to build a list of the instances in your mind, even writing them down if that helps you make your case to her. Then you need to confront her with the information boldly, while making sure she understands that you want to help her overcome this problem. If you can just get her to admit that she has a problem that's the first step. From this step you can make a lot of progress. If she is not willing to admit she has this problem, then you need to let her know you can't go on like this in this relationship. She might be willing to admit that she has a problem if she realizes that she is going to lose the friendship as a result of her lies. In this case, tough love is in order and it is the only thing that is going to break her of this stronghold, along with the proper measure of fasting prayers as the Lord leads you in that area.

 

[BreadAlone]

If they are a Believer, you might remind them that liars will not inherit the Kingdom of Heaven.