Guys, what would you do if this happened to you?

[nick garai]

A scenario for the guys to answer.

What would you do if a man took away your wife and children from you and destroyed your family? How would you respond?

Clarification: The man adulterated the wife and absconded the children away from you.

 

[Messy]

I'm not a guy but a woman destroyed my family. The first year I could kill her, now I have forgiven her. He was calling with her last year in my house for some real weird reasons, I saw him like that, I had to pray for him. She left and he's going to marry a good woman, thank God!

What I did to get the kids back 50/50 was call him and tell him how sorry I was for the things I had done wrong and then he asked me forgiveness for what he did and I could see the kids again. I just say yes and amen to everything he wants. He wanted me to get help with raising the kids, no problem. He came over to control if my house was clean, no problem. He just moved to another city and took the kids to another school which he may not if you look at our contract, no problem, I moved too.
Is there anything you can do to see your kids? It's insane that they give the kids to the guilty party. I'll pray that you can see them again.

 

[Bobthemotorcycle]

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[nick garai]

Clarification: The man adulterated the wife and absconded the children away from you.

 

[Messy]

Father's Rights Survival Guide - Innocent Dads - iDads
point 19 and 20, don't know if you did that already

 

[MehGuy]

I would do some witchcraft.

 

[Bobthemotorcycle]

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[Jacob Jilg]

I've never lost my wife and kids to a man, but I did lose the ability to socialize to mental illness at age 18 causing me to never have a life with a wife and kids or a job.

What am I doing about it? I have a lot of free time to get good at my hobbies like writing userscripts for Greasyfork.

Given the original scenario, the losing of a real marriage and family: me personally I've always seen the worst come out of those situations as an observer, so my advice is to do what's best for the kids even if it may or may not be what you want.