Guilt Obsessions

[picassoui]

Alright the other night i got angry at something a teenager said and i really let him have it ...i know i was wrong though maybe not wrong about what i said but for saying it to begin with but i really hurt him and i know this because he said so ..

I have apologized i have tried to reconcile but he won't have it ..

also he stayed up late arguing with me and he got in trouble for it for which he was severely punished by his dad i wont say how but it was bad

he blamed me for his punishment which spiked me of course ..

and so im just really upset about it ..he chose to stay up late and argue and any time he could have said i have to go . so im not responsible for his punishment and and his dad was unreasonable about it .

but to compound it i OBSESS over guilt its like i cant forgive myself and i think about over and over for days and days ,,and it even starts making me physically ill..

 

[Jayangel81]

Guilt is a powerful tool of the enemy. The fact you are obsessing over it is just your OCD acting up and spiking.

Pray to your heavenly Father and ask Him to release this from you

 

[seajoy]

also he stayed up late arguing with me and he got in trouble for it for which he was severely punished by his dad i wont say how but it was bad

Have you called Social Services concerning this young man and the circumstances under which he lives? His troubles may stem from his treatment at home.

Also....perhaps hang up the phone if this happens again. It has upset you way too much for this to have been worth the effort to argue.