I´m sorry, but i think it was a different thing if the woman was in her start 20´s, then she might have an excuse, but she is in her 30´s, i´m sorry, but to me that is a sign of lack of maturity and of course she has a lack of maturity why would she not?? she has been taken care of her whole life, how will she learn to stand on her own two feet and take things serious?? I know how hard things can hurt, and how much it can affect us, but there is people in the world who have suffered worse things than that and can still function, so just to say that bad experiences affects us and then we can be crippled all our lives and do as we please,just because we have experienced something bad, i don´t think that is good enough.
How unscriptural, unkind, callous, and discriminatory. -- The young lady hasn't been "taken care of her whole life", but the very opposite. She comes from a broken family. Her foundation at home, socially, emotionally,
developmentally, and spiritually, is very likely
fractured. No amount of monies, social support, etc, can compensate such a
deficit. 'Build your house on solid rock', right. Eric Ericson's 8 Stages touches on this regarding deficits at certain life stages and being stuck there for life. On that note, it's worth noting that parents and superiors in life, be it aunts and uncles, teachers or employers, are mere
guardians of a person. A person
made in the image of God. Hence, while you all condescend a '20 year old' or '30 year old', you overlook the fact that we're all children, and every child ultimately belongs to God, the Creator. And God knows our every need. And only his love never fails and his mercy endures forever. - Blessed be the name of the Lord.- So he will be her ultimate help, according to his will, and
time. Not yours, not necessarily. If anything, your treatment (and perception - discrimination) of her is a testament against yourself, and your sin. e.g. Worldliness and breaching of the royal law.
This ethos is captured in the Lord's words:
"He that hath two coats, let him impart to him that hath none; and he that hath meat, let him do likewise." (Luke 3:11)
So
if and
when we have more to spare, we thank God, and
give to those in need. Per the Good Samaritan. Going above and beyond when coming across someone in crisis.
Blessings