Grounds for divorce?

[HisdaughterJen]

I wanted to comment back but keep getting disc. Do you know if he "LOVES" you,does it say it a all?

He used to say it all the time. Then about a year after he started this job (3 1/2 years ago), he stopped saying it completely. I say it before we hang up if we talk on the phone (ever-so-briefly because he's busy) but he doesn't. He's not wearing his wedding ring either...it's in the jewelry box.

So, now I guess maybe he doesn't love me anymore, huh? How can that be? He married me and promised he'd love me forever. I believed him.

 

[HisdaughterJen]

I do believe that were I in your shoes I'd tell him to prove that he's not an adulterer. I'd list all of the things you've mentioned in this thread, as objectively as possible, and then tell him that if your positions were reversed he would think the same.

I think you should be prepared to take the kids and leave immediately before you confront him, though.

Yes, I'm trying to save some money so I'm not without means when I do confront him. The kids are still small (barely 5 and 2 1/2) and not yet in school. The house is for sale.

 

[TealTuesday]

I could just cry with you,maybe that's not what you need but I'm a wreck right now.I feel your pain. You know there is someone that will love you and trust God to bring him your way! I have prayed today here for quite awhile. I have so many things I need to get done so I have to get off the computer or I'd stay and talk to you. My name is Teal.
I support you best I can from here.