He knew what I thought of him. I was pleasant, and went to him about issues. At first I was very supportive, and willing to step in and help, the problem was he was happy with me doing it all. I don't want to be gossipping now, so I won't go too much into it, but it was a serious problem, because I did go through all the right channels, and everyone knew what was going on but nothing changed. I work in a school, and I am a Special Ed Para, who happens to have worked with a really good and experienced Sp. Ed teacher for 8 years. So when this person who had come from a high school environment came in, I was quite willing to jump in and do what needed to be done, which was to figure out how the kids needed to be placed, structure their morning, and do all of the lesson planning. In short, I did his job. I was attempting to show him what the kids needed. I wasn't pushy or bossy about it, I was like,"Would you like me to..." After awhile the principal had a meeting with us, and we were supposed to plan together with the idea that he would take over. It didn't happen. To make matters worse, he would let them play if I wasn't in there, so when I tried to get them to work, I mean like read during Reading class, they would throw fits and say,"Mr._____ let's us play. Anyway, I lost a lot of sleep worrying about the kids in our room. I was so concerned that they weren't getting what they needed, and it affected me physically. It really did seem a temptation more than I could bear, to vent when others were already venting about him, I was already bursting at the seams with frustration.
This year, so far God has blessed me, and I don't have to work directly with him. I joined the union and will go that route if I am put in that situation again. I do feel guilty about all the complaining and gossipping that I did, but I am not sure that I would be able to keep my mouth shut now either if it happened again, so I made up a plan of action so I cna remedy the situation rather than endure it. It all would be so different if it didn't involve the welfare of children. If it were a different kind of job, I could simply not do his part and let him fail, but how could I let those kids suffer, not to mention the parents. I would be insanely furious if my son's teacher just let him play.