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God does not need anybody to protect Him.
But a young virgin girl "might". So, if there is a law that a rapist must pay to marry his victim, this can help encourage family members to take care of their young female virgins.
And . . . "of course" . . . if a guy knows he will be required to pay and marry someone he rapes . . . this might help him think about it.
And with this law is the requirement that the father has authority to decide if he accepts the man.
So, it is an incorrect representation to only say that law requires that a woman be bought by the rapist; because, with this law is the stipulation that the father may refuse to let the man marry the virgin but the man has to pay.
But Deuteronomy 22:28-29 does not mention this > but this scripture includes how the man never will be allowed to divorce her.
And it would be understood, in a culture of godly people, that the man is expected by God to love his wife fully, and do all he can to encourage her and be good to her. If he is young, possibly he can mature and do better. So, I can see this command is meant to be used with hope for a wrong man to change and do better. This can help feed us to see the redemption that God has for all of us in Christ Jesus . . . how every one of us has violated people, somehow, in our sinning including how our bad example has violated children; but God has hope for each of us . . . through Jesus.
But if he is an evil person not going to change, it is likely he will later do some other sex crime, but then as a married man he will be executed if he gets with any woman other than his wife.
Marriage, then, was protected by the death penalty. Also engagement was > Deuteronomy 22:25-27 < raping another man's fiancée is a death penalty offense. Notice how this regulation to marry a rape victim is only for raping an unengaged virgin; raping a fiancée would get the death penalty.
So, if you or anyone don't like this, then don't do the crime!!
Exodus 22:16-17 shows how the father of the virgin victim has say about if the rapist marries his daughter. And - - whether he accepts the man or not . . . still the rapist must pay the bride price. So . . . again . . . ones knew this law; and this alone could prevent rape.
And people knew each other personally, then. They lived in tents near each other, often enough. There was personal and family culture. If you were godly and knew this law, you "might" keep an eye on your virgin family members. So, the law could help to encourage people to watch out for each other and keep track of who was around their family people.
So, this was not meant for a culture where girls are allowed to run free, like in the United States.
This law was meant to be used in a culture where people knew God and knew how to love in marriage and they knew one another as a community. So, if someone did rape a virgin, everyone then could make the guy a "project", to help him become a real man. If he stubbornly kept on being irresponsible, there was a death penalty for that, too >
Deuteronomy 18:18-21
But this was meant mainly to expose any thoughts and feelings which might take a man to commit rape, so he could see that stuff is sin; but also to encourage hope for a rapist to be redeemed and learn how to love. And God is able to redeem us and change us into really loving persons . . . as family . . . not in isolation in our own egos' free wills. All these death penalty rules were meant to encourage people to stay alive, by living in love . . . not only to make it in their own selfish ways.
Sin does bring death . . . death of loving. And the awfulness of this, I have experienced, is worse than dying.
"'Say to them: "As I live," says the Lord God, "I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live. Turn, turn from your evil ways! For why should you die, O house of Israel?"'" (Ezekiel 33:11)
Only the death of Jesus can make up for our sins. Our own dying with or without suicide can not be enough; execution can not make up for the wrongs people do; and unforgiveness can be very destructive, in the ones desiring revenge and ones who would not forgive a rapist. So, really, our selfish selves needs to die, so then we become love-living personalities. The old person needs to be passed away, and replaced by how Jesus in us has us becoming, while He in us is sharing with us how He relates with our Father and loves any and all people > Galatians 4:19.
He died for us, with hope for any person, at all; and - - knowing where people can go if they refuse God . . . Jesus considered it to be worthwhile for Him to suffer like that and die like He did, in order to keep us from going there.
But a young virgin girl "might". So, if there is a law that a rapist must pay to marry his victim, this can help encourage family members to take care of their young female virgins.
And . . . "of course" . . . if a guy knows he will be required to pay and marry someone he rapes . . . this might help him think about it.
And with this law is the requirement that the father has authority to decide if he accepts the man.
So, it is an incorrect representation to only say that law requires that a woman be bought by the rapist; because, with this law is the stipulation that the father may refuse to let the man marry the virgin but the man has to pay.
But Deuteronomy 22:28-29 does not mention this > but this scripture includes how the man never will be allowed to divorce her.
And it would be understood, in a culture of godly people, that the man is expected by God to love his wife fully, and do all he can to encourage her and be good to her. If he is young, possibly he can mature and do better. So, I can see this command is meant to be used with hope for a wrong man to change and do better. This can help feed us to see the redemption that God has for all of us in Christ Jesus . . . how every one of us has violated people, somehow, in our sinning including how our bad example has violated children; but God has hope for each of us . . . through Jesus.
But if he is an evil person not going to change, it is likely he will later do some other sex crime, but then as a married man he will be executed if he gets with any woman other than his wife.
Marriage, then, was protected by the death penalty. Also engagement was > Deuteronomy 22:25-27 < raping another man's fiancée is a death penalty offense. Notice how this regulation to marry a rape victim is only for raping an unengaged virgin; raping a fiancée would get the death penalty.
So, if you or anyone don't like this, then don't do the crime!!
Exodus 22:16-17 shows how the father of the virgin victim has say about if the rapist marries his daughter. And - - whether he accepts the man or not . . . still the rapist must pay the bride price. So . . . again . . . ones knew this law; and this alone could prevent rape.
And people knew each other personally, then. They lived in tents near each other, often enough. There was personal and family culture. If you were godly and knew this law, you "might" keep an eye on your virgin family members. So, the law could help to encourage people to watch out for each other and keep track of who was around their family people.
So, this was not meant for a culture where girls are allowed to run free, like in the United States.
This law was meant to be used in a culture where people knew God and knew how to love in marriage and they knew one another as a community. So, if someone did rape a virgin, everyone then could make the guy a "project", to help him become a real man. If he stubbornly kept on being irresponsible, there was a death penalty for that, too >
Deuteronomy 18:18-21
But this was meant mainly to expose any thoughts and feelings which might take a man to commit rape, so he could see that stuff is sin; but also to encourage hope for a rapist to be redeemed and learn how to love. And God is able to redeem us and change us into really loving persons . . . as family . . . not in isolation in our own egos' free wills. All these death penalty rules were meant to encourage people to stay alive, by living in love . . . not only to make it in their own selfish ways.
Sin does bring death . . . death of loving. And the awfulness of this, I have experienced, is worse than dying.
"'Say to them: "As I live," says the Lord God, "I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live. Turn, turn from your evil ways! For why should you die, O house of Israel?"'" (Ezekiel 33:11)
Only the death of Jesus can make up for our sins. Our own dying with or without suicide can not be enough; execution can not make up for the wrongs people do; and unforgiveness can be very destructive, in the ones desiring revenge and ones who would not forgive a rapist. So, really, our selfish selves needs to die, so then we become love-living personalities. The old person needs to be passed away, and replaced by how Jesus in us has us becoming, while He in us is sharing with us how He relates with our Father and loves any and all people > Galatians 4:19.
He died for us, with hope for any person, at all; and - - knowing where people can go if they refuse God . . . Jesus considered it to be worthwhile for Him to suffer like that and die like He did, in order to keep us from going there.
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