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God does not need anybody to protect Him.

But a young virgin girl "might". So, if there is a law that a rapist must pay to marry his victim, this can help encourage family members to take care of their young female virgins.

And . . . "of course" . . . if a guy knows he will be required to pay and marry someone he rapes . . . this might help him think about it.

And with this law is the requirement that the father has authority to decide if he accepts the man.

So, it is an incorrect representation to only say that law requires that a woman be bought by the rapist; because, with this law is the stipulation that the father may refuse to let the man marry the virgin but the man has to pay.

But Deuteronomy 22:28-29 does not mention this > but this scripture includes how the man never will be allowed to divorce her.

And it would be understood, in a culture of godly people, that the man is expected by God to love his wife fully, and do all he can to encourage her and be good to her. If he is young, possibly he can mature and do better. So, I can see this command is meant to be used with hope for a wrong man to change and do better. This can help feed us to see the redemption that God has for all of us in Christ Jesus . . . how every one of us has violated people, somehow, in our sinning including how our bad example has violated children; but God has hope for each of us . . . through Jesus.

But if he is an evil person not going to change, it is likely he will later do some other sex crime, but then as a married man he will be executed if he gets with any woman other than his wife.

Marriage, then, was protected by the death penalty. Also engagement was > Deuteronomy 22:25-27 < raping another man's fiancée is a death penalty offense. Notice how this regulation to marry a rape victim is only for raping an unengaged virgin; raping a fiancée would get the death penalty.

So, if you or anyone don't like this, then don't do the crime!!

Exodus 22:16-17 shows how the father of the virgin victim has say about if the rapist marries his daughter. And - - whether he accepts the man or not . . . still the rapist must pay the bride price. So . . . again . . . ones knew this law; and this alone could prevent rape.

And people knew each other personally, then. They lived in tents near each other, often enough. There was personal and family culture. If you were godly and knew this law, you "might" keep an eye on your virgin family members. So, the law could help to encourage people to watch out for each other and keep track of who was around their family people.

So, this was not meant for a culture where girls are allowed to run free, like in the United States.

This law was meant to be used in a culture where people knew God and knew how to love in marriage and they knew one another as a community. So, if someone did rape a virgin, everyone then could make the guy a "project", to help him become a real man. If he stubbornly kept on being irresponsible, there was a death penalty for that, too >

Deuteronomy 18:18-21

But this was meant mainly to expose any thoughts and feelings which might take a man to commit rape, so he could see that stuff is sin; but also to encourage hope for a rapist to be redeemed and learn how to love. And God is able to redeem us and change us into really loving persons . . . as family . . . not in isolation in our own egos' free wills. All these death penalty rules were meant to encourage people to stay alive, by living in love . . . not only to make it in their own selfish ways.

Sin does bring death . . . death of loving. And the awfulness of this, I have experienced, is worse than dying.

"'Say to them: "As I live," says the Lord God, "I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live. Turn, turn from your evil ways! For why should you die, O house of Israel?"'" (Ezekiel 33:11)

Only the death of Jesus can make up for our sins. Our own dying with or without suicide can not be enough; execution can not make up for the wrongs people do; and unforgiveness can be very destructive, in the ones desiring revenge and ones who would not forgive a rapist. So, really, our selfish selves needs to die, so then we become love-living personalities. The old person needs to be passed away, and replaced by how Jesus in us has us becoming, while He in us is sharing with us how He relates with our Father and loves any and all people > Galatians 4:19.

He died for us, with hope for any person, at all; and - - knowing where people can go if they refuse God . . . Jesus considered it to be worthwhile for Him to suffer like that and die like He did, in order to keep us from going there.
 
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The existence of free agents is necessary for there to exist free agents who have the freedom to choose to love their neighbor.

The freedom to choose to love one's neighbor entails the freedom to choose to rape one's neighbor.
 
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Obviously the Old Testament punishments are not meant to be applied today. In the Old Testament, if a man raped a girl, his "punishment" was that he had to marry her.

Don't think that would apply today, but during a time when a woman was dependent on a man for protection, you understand what the law was intending to accomplish.
 
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If a good God existed, with the qualities usually ascribed to him, then yes, we would expect to observe a radically different world to the one we inhabit. Whether a good God exists or not, his ultimate authority renders him responsible regardless.

Now, you have yet to show how an act can be objectively "evil" in the absence of God, but let us not focus on that now.

You've yet to show that a God is necessary for that at all.


Are you are saying that it is inconceivable for an omnipotent being to create a world that does not contain evil? Are you saying that God is, therefore, powerless against evil? The promise of an afterlife without evil - Heaven - is therefore a lie?


This is essentially the "God works in mysterious ways" canard. There are no other means an almighty deity has at his disposal "to build us or to test us" apart from needless suffering, and even more grotesquely, the threat of eternal suffering?


I see no reason to assume that, without God, there are no moral obligations, noting also the two-horned problem of divine morality.

Now if you cannot understand how this is different than saying one has to believe in God to be moral, (something I have never stated), then you should spend less time trying to argue and more time learning and researching.

Having already argued this point ad nauseam on this forum I think I've done sufficient learning and researching, hence the succinctness of my responses.
 
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Yeah, I'd say that God is, in a sense, powerless against evil. But power, here, refers to a full sway over things as they're created to be. Human freedom isn't created to be anything; that's what makes it freedom. So it's not quite true to say that human freedom precipitating in evil means God isn't omnipotent over this aspect of creation.
 
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The existence of free agents is necessary for there to exist free agents[...]


The freedom to choose to love one's neighbor entails the freedom to choose to rape one's neighbor.
I didn´t ask you to restate your assertion, I asked you to substantiate it.
 
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I think there's a misunderstanding of what "powerless" means... just because God grants us free will, it doesn't mean He's powerless. This is just the structure of the world He has created.
 
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I think there's a misunderstanding of what "powerless" means... just because God grants us free will, it doesn't mean He's powerless. This is just the structure of the world He has created.
It says "God resists the proud," in James 4:6 and also in 1 Peter 5:5. So, even if proud people have free will, God is resisting them.

And we see how God turned evil for His good purpose, in the case of Joseph whose brothers sold him into slavery > Genesis 37-50. Even though those brothers used their "free wills" to do what they did to Joseph, God was using it for the good of many people.

And Joseph said to them, "'But as for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good, in order to bring it about as it is this day, to save many people alive. Now therefore, do not be afraid; I will provide for you and your little ones.' And he comforted them and spoke kindly to them." (Genesis 50:20-21) So, God used the evil of those brothers for God's good purpose, even for saving many people's lives. Plus, Joseph used that situation to help his brothers and to show kindness to them . . . even though at that time Joseph had power to use Egypt's resources to do whatsoever he pleased to get back at his brothers.

So . . . we with God can use even other people's wrongs against us, for our advantage and for the good of others . . . not only for ourselves, but in an all-loving way, like God did with Joseph.

So, with God we also are not limited by evil. "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." (Romans 12:21)

But there are ones who would rather accuse God, than take advantage of Him as our resource!

Another thing > I notice how there are things evil, which the book of Revelation says will happen. In this book, God is telling us about things which will happen in the future. The only way I think He can know this is if He is in control of what will happen . . . and how it will come out. It will not come out the way evil boasts!!

Evil is now being processed to where it is going > to the flaming sewer which burns with fire and brimstone. If you wonder why there is fire in hell . . . consider that predatory animals and stubborn elephants may not be willing to just do what you want and say, but fire can make them be reasonable. I can see that because of how Satan is so stubborn, fire will be a practical way of managing him . . . and his who are stubborn.

"rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God" (1 Peter 3:4)
 
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This is some of the most warped thinking I've seen. Being required to purchase your rape victim does not dissuade rape, it encourages men to rape the young lady they most want. It bases marriage and a woman's entire future on being raped. What woman in their right mind wants to be bought by their rapist??? And what sick and twisted deity would ever proscribe that rape victims can be purchased by their attackers?????


Ladies, if you ever needed proof that you are property to be purchased based on the value of your vagina, the bible will affirm it for you. You're a step above cattle.


Yes. It was meant to say that you're only economically valuable as a virgin, you are property, and if somebody rapes you then your dad's not losing his cash based on your hymen.
 
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Ladies, if you ever needed proof that you are property to be purchased based on the value of your vagina, the bible will affirm it for you. You're a step above cattle.

Technically they are less than cattle, because women have a one-shot value, followed by no value, whereas you want to breed your prize cows and they maintain value after procreation.

Also, it's probably illegal to eat a woman, whereas you can eat a cow.

Why women follow religions based on hatred of women mystifies me, I assume they just pretend because who wants to be irrationally beaten?
 
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What a terrible way to view women and a stupid understanding of human worth. What's sad is this kind of idiocy still exists in the Middle East.

I spent 12 years in the middle east and I can confirm that the idiocy against women is massively widespread. And not just against middle eastern women. I saw two Irish girls who dared show their long hair in public get it spray painted green on the streets of Al-Khobar.
 
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Evil is a byproduct of good through free will. Morality is a byproduct of our understanding of these things. Morals are based off of emotions and are subjective. Your pencil is good but it is also amoral. It is my stance that God is good and everything He created is good. God cannot operate outside of Himself. Free will alone has allowed creation to pervert good. God is the source of everything created but the creation is responsible for the privation. We can lie because the truth exists, we can murder because life exists and we can hate because love exists. Everything is good until it is perverted and even then good will remain in it until it is destroyed. The original good has been perverted over time and accepted in different forms by various cultures. However, it is evident that cultural moral overlap exists.

Noah. Justness operates inside of good, unjustness is a perversion. The flood was just. Before the flood the world had grown wicked past the point of reconciliation. Had the world been sinless then the flood would have been unjust.
 
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Are you are saying that it is inconceivable for an omnipotent being to create a world that does not contain evil?

Of course not. We can very well conceive of a world in which there is no evil. For example, a world just like ours sans free moral agents. In such a world, there would be no free moral agents capable of committing evil and thus no evil.

Are you saying that God is, therefore, powerless against evil?

I have shown that logical argument from evil fails in two ways. The first is because neither of the implicit assumptions is necessarily true and secondly by demonstrating that if it is only possible that God has sufficient moral reasons for permitting evil, then the existence of evil and the existence of an omnibenevolent and omnipotent God are not logically incompatible.


The promise of an afterlife without evil - Heaven - is therefore a lie?

Does not follow from anything you have stated thus far.



There are no other means an almighty deity has at his disposal "to build us or to test us" apart from needless suffering, and even more grotesquely, the threat of eternal suffering?

There is no way you can show that the suffering we endure is needless. From our perspective much of what we suffer may indeed seem needless. Not unlike a child might perceive the suffering that they endure at the hands of a caring and loving doctor who resets a broken bone to be "needless". I have endured such pain and suffering as a youngster and I guarantee you, if it were up to me, I would NOT have chosen to endure the pain or suffering in order to have my broken bone reset. But those who knew better, subjected me to momentary discomfort and pain in order to achieve a greater good.

The truth is is that we cannot know God's whole purpose in an instance. We cannot see and understand all the angles the way God could if He existed and if He so ordered things to bring about a greater good.






I see no reason to assume that, without God, there are no moral obligations, noting also the two-horned problem of divine morality.

Ok. Answer this:

What obligates me to refrain from cheating on a final exam in college when I know I could do so and not only get away with it, but get the 4.0 GPA I need in order to qualify for that particular job I have always wanted?

What or who obligates me to not do what I feel is in my best interest?
 
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I didn´t ask you to restate your assertion, I asked you to substantiate it.


If I am free to love and respect and to honor the women I encounter in my day to day life, I am also free to hate them, disrespect them and dishonor them.

In what sense would I be free if I did not have a choice in how I treated the women I encountered, but like a robot, automatically treated women a certain way without the possibility of doing otherwise?

I would not be a free moral agent in such a scenario, but an automaton.
 
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Well, you didn´t say that for having the freedom to love you would have have to have the freedom to *not love* (which indeed makes sense, and is undisputed), you explicitly made it dependent on your freedom to rape them.
Without the freedom to rape them there would still be plenty of space for you to not love them, to hate them, to disrespect them and to dishonor them to your heart´s desire.
 
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Of course not. We can very well conceive of a world in which there is no evil. For example, a world just like ours sans free moral agents. In such a world, there would be no free moral agents capable of committing evil and thus no evil.

Or a world just like our sans the option of doing evil. You can still have free agents who have other options that do not include the option of doing evil. We can even conceive of a world just like ours where there is evil, but it is immediately and unambiguously punished by God, thus making his moral code crystal clear to all free agents.


You've yet to elucidate what those moral reasons are and what makes them sufficient. This just reads like apologetic hand-waving: "God might have very good reasons for allowing genocides to occur." He might? He also might not.

Does not follow from anything you have stated thus far.

It follows quite well. If God is incapable of creating a world without evil in which persons are still free agents then Heaven becomes impossible, or rather, Heaven becomes a place where it is impossible to be free.


As I said before, this is the same worn out "God works in mysterious ways" canard. We can imagine a different situation to the one you've just outlined. Suppose that a youngster, not unlike yourself in the above story, was held hostage for years by a mysterious man who he does not know. Everyday he would receive painful electric shocks. There was no apparent association between the shocks and his behaviour; he was shocked regardless of what he did. Finally, that boy was rescued by the police. Years later, as he wondered why his torturer did the things that he did, how much comfort would it give him to hear that his torturer simply "works in mysterious ways"? Perhaps it was not needless, perhaps he was doing it for some "greater good" that the boy could not see?


Well, obviously... God. Duh.

But seriously, you can think of no reason other than God for why you should not cheat on an exam? If that represents the limits of your moral imagination then you do indeed need religion to be good. Many other people do not. In this particular situation, I would reason that it is wrong to cheat on the exam because it is dishonest and sets a behavioural precedent for further dishonesty, which can lead to harm being done to others. In the more immediate term, it can cause harm to your peers by undeservingly elevating your grade above theirs, thus giving you an unfair advantage. Presumably you would not appreciate others having an unfair advantage over you. Those are just some examples of why it would be wrong to cheat to the exam. There are various other ways in which one might reason through this situation ethically that do not involve appealing to a deity.
 
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Or a world just like our sans the option of doing evil.

A world in which there is no option to commit evil is not a world like ours, for such a world would be void of free moral agents capable of committing evil.

Such a world you envision would not contain human beings.



You can still have free agents who have other options that do not include the option of doing evil.

It seems to me that you are arguing that there is a world in which free moral agents exist and do not have the option of committing evil. But how would these agents be "free" if they were not free to choose to commit evil?

Do not mistake what I am saying. I am not saying that free moral agents have no other option but to commit evil as if being free implies some sort of determinism to do evil.

One does have other options besides committing evil, namely, doing good.


We can even conceive of a world just like ours where there is evil, but it is immediately and unambiguously punished by God, thus making his moral code crystal clear to all free agents.

I can indeed conceive of such a world where you are immediately and unambiguously punished by God when you commit an evil act.

But how would that look?

Imagine a world in which the moment two homosexuals begin to act on their desire to lay with one another they immediately combust and burst into flames and this happens whenever homosexuals try to be intimate with one another.

Imagine a world in which you look at a woman or man and lust after them in your own heart, and are immediately struck by large stones falling from the heavens and this happens whenever someone lusts in their heart.

Imagine a world where whenever people put something before God thus making it an idol, they have a stroke and are paralyzed for the rest of their life.

Imagine a world wherein when anyone takes the name of God in vain their tongue falls out.

Now I will be charitable and even agree with you that these things would make God's moral code crystal clear to everyone. What follows?

How many of us would be alive if we were struck dead everytime we did something evil?

How many of us would be able to function if we were paralyzed or incapacitated every time we did something evil?

The world you conceive of is conceivable, but I have no reason whatsoever to think that God would prefer such a world to the one He created.



You've yet to elucidate what those moral reasons are and what makes them sufficient. This just reads like apologetic hand-waving: "God might have very good reasons for allowing genocides to occur." He might? He also might not.

I do not have to elucidate what they are. As long as it is possible that He has morally sufficient reasons for allowing evil, then it does not follow that the existence of evil and the existence of an omnibenevolent and omnipotent God is logically incompatible.

In fact, I do not have to even make the argument I made. All I had to do was to show that one of your assumptions was not necessarily true and I have not only done that, but shown that both fail to be necessarily true, thus rendering it doubly invalid.



It follows quite well. If God is incapable of creating a world without evil in which persons are still free agents then Heaven becomes impossible, or rather, Heaven becomes a place where it is impossible to be free.

How does that follow?




I doubt it would be comforting at all.

But I have never argued that the free will defense against the logical version of the argument from evil is something that is comforting.

And besides, are you not more concerned with what the truth is? If the truth is disconcerting to you, then that is something you have to deal with.

I do not claim that the answers are comforting or easy. Evil according to the Christian is real and has real consequences and hurts. But the Christian also claims that God has not stood idly by, but has entered into history and shared in our sufferings so that we might have hope that one day, evil will be vanquished finally and totally.








Well now, it seems you have just pushed the matter one step further back by saying:

"It is wrong because it is dishonest and can lead to others being harmed."

But my question still remains sir:

What or who obligates me to be honest and concerned about the well being of others?"
 
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A world in which there is no option to commit evil is not a world like ours, for such a world would be void of free moral agents capable of committing evil.
And that would be bad... how? Do you prefer a world where people can rape and kill over one where they can't? Is that something you would want to create if you were the one in total control of creation?

Such a world you envision would not contain human beings.
If there's something I can imagine that God cannot do, then that would be a pretty limited God in my opinion. If I can imagine a world where people don't kill and rape and steal from each other, why couldn't God make it so? The answer is, he chose not to.

Or he doesn't exist. I lean more towards the latter.
It seems to me that you are arguing that there is a world in which free moral agents exist and do not have the option of committing evil. But how would these agents be "free" if they were not free to choose to commit evil?
You can still be free to choose things like, a blue shirt over a green one. Or choose to be a doctor instead of a lawyer without having the freedom to shoot somebody in the face. You can still be quite free to live your life how you see fit while being unable to choose to rape a woman.

Really, I don't know why anyone would ever need that freedom. Why create a world with suffering when you have at your disposal, infinite power, knowledge, and resources to make whatever kind of world you want? Why on earth would you settle for such a bad design when you could have done much better?

Maybe God was pressed for time trying to fit the creation of a universe into 6 days and he overlooked somethings....

Or maybe he just doesn't exist.
 
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