Going through a tough time right now...

[Irregular Process]

Yes, a girl problem.


I felt it on my heart to (gently) break up from my girlfriend of six months. Very close relationship. I'm a new believer, and she became one a while back, but she doesn't behave at all like one. She's very controlling, often demanding to know who I've been talking to and then not speaking to me when I admit that I had casual conversation with another girl. She's had a rough life, though, so I understand her tendencies. :\ She's very delicate underneath her thick skin and barriers that she put up. It's just that she's more of an adult than anything, and I can't handle such a serious relationship. I care SO much about her, but she feels like I simply don't want anything to with her. I DO. I've been trying to show her that, but... She's taking it really hard. She hates me. >_< Am I doing the right thing? Or am I simply hurting her feelings for no reason?


Pray for me. I need strength right now. To follow this through, if this is the way I'm supposed to be going.

 

[Joliefemm]

Praying for you both.

 

[Irregular Process]

She talks about suicide constantly... I'm so worried, and there's nothing I can do to convince her that I love/care about her.


PRAY PLZ. DDD:

 

[Joliefemm]

People who talk about committing suicide are more likely to actually do it. If you think she is in crisis, do not hesitate to speak with a professional.

If you are in a suicide crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org) or contact the Samaritans (a UK group) -- http://www.samaritans.org.

Still praying for you both.

 

[Onlythingavailable]

I agree with Joliefemm. Praying.

 

[jesuslovesme54]

Praying for you both and may the Lord give you wisdom and peace. God bless

 

[faithrestored]

P pray for both of you and that the Lord guides on the right path. I pray that she gets the help she needs to heal as well.

 

[hypostatic]

Praying!

 

[Bobby1812]

Hi

From what you wrote, I assumed that you are both new believers. Well, welcome to the Kingdom of God.

I like to humbly suggest that both of you make efforts and time to grow in Christ first. It can solve lots of your current problems. But it takes time.

Spend time reading the bible together (e.g. she takes 5 verses, you take 5 verses), keeping in mind that you want to build a Christ-centered life in both of you. And making time for such study also allow the Holy Spirit to work in her life and yours too.
And pray together as well. You can believe that God can help her supernaturally too.

BK

 

[richterforest]

Praying for her and you!

 

[servant of Merciful Love]

You sound like you have made a mature decision; stay to it!
Don't let her manipulate you by threats of harm; just be sure you alert someone who can evaluate and help her.
Then pray for her and be there if she needs you to listen IF you feel you can handle it.
SHE must find purpose and happiness for her own life; NOTHING you say or do can do that.
I will be praying for you and your friend... for your light and peace, and for her healing.

 

[Irregular Process]

Hi

From what you wrote, I assumed that you are both new believers. Well, welcome to the Kingdom of God.

I like to humbly suggest that both of you make efforts and time to grow in Christ first. It can solve lots of your current problems. But it takes time.

Spend time reading the bible together (e.g. she takes 5 verses, you take 5 verses), keeping in mind that you want to build a Christ-centered life in both of you. And making time for such study also allow the Holy Spirit to work in her life and yours too.
And pray together as well. You can believe that God can help her supernaturally too.

BK

I'm not sure if you understand... she hates me now. We had been together for six months BEFORE I accepted Christ. She had done so before me, but... not really stuck to it. Now that I see things differently, I found our relationship was not what God was nudging me towards. Now she is angry and hurt, and I can't help but try and, well, HELP. I try to talk to her all the time, but she's just awful.

I'm between a rock and a hard place. Thank you so much for all the prayers and support, everyone. God bless you all. D:

 

[WorshipBassist]

Shall pray!

 

[Stephanie7]

Father God, I pray that You will grant this one wisdom and discernment that he may know what to do in this situation. I pray and ask that whatever he chooses that feelings will be spared. I pray and ask that You will lead his girlfriend to get the help she needs. Grant her healing and both of them peace together or apart, In Jesus Name, Amen