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GODS side effect from abortion

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If people have no moral ethics in human reproduction then they should be sterilized. Left to ravage there sexual desires unto who ever wants them and leave the baby making for couples that care for the innocent and who are morally responsible.This is insane!The women that are in my life that has had an abortion . Are on the brink of insanity and there quilt and depression is out of this world and it is ,so multi faceted in there lives after the fact. and the facts and knowledge of the destruction of an aborted baby and the womens mental health are staggering and still people don't care.and people are ,so self center and independent in there thinking that they think there is no ramification to there abortion and to their conscience (GODS SIDE EFFECT) . and the rest of us have to listen to there crying and live with there insanity(bless there hearts),but all for sex and no responsibility and the rest of us carry the burden all the way around. FOR THE LOSE AND THE LOST. Two wrongs don't make womens pro choice right.The right to sex and the right to there body. To make it right to kill. You can't fixes some thing mentally once its broken. We reap what they sow
 
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Ah, the vaunted Christian compassion. It's a good thing Christians don't also vaunt their spelling and grammar.
You think i bragg or boast on there emotions and the death of the child.(come on ) and you put down every opportunity to do any good on the issue. I'm sick of people acting so moral on an in moral issue. and you can't fix what mentally is broken after the situation ,but you can fix it before it come an issue. Education and learning after 40 years we should be able to see our demise.You can call me stupid all you want ,but i think people like you should have learned about the sickness by now. I feel like anything i write or say trying to work out this issue people like you try to distort what ever good is said. Is it for your own ambition. You don't care about the women or the children! What is it you want sex with no responsibility. Well then go get sterilized.
 
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Is there a point in all this besides putting foreward a "Kill babies and we kill you" viewpoint?
That we may change our thinking and to live our lives with the blessing GOD gave you, weather or not you choose to let some else intervene and help raise the child. You still have to live with knowledge ,but not the death on your mind.
 
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There are some documented "mental effects" from having an abortion that are similiar to misscarriage but most of these are only the case in late abortions, which is one of the reason why abortion should be done as fast as possible if planned.

Lnow quite afew women myself that have had one or several abortions and none show any sign of "insanity". You sure that it isnt the threat of their over religeous christian dad beating the crap out of them or knowing that people around them think they are horrible that is eating them away and not the actual abortion?
 
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There are some documented "mental effects" from having an abortion that are similiar to misscarriage but most of these are only the case in late abortions, which is one of the reason why abortion should be done as fast as possible if planned.

Lnow quite afew women myself that have had one or several abortions and none show any sign of "insanity". You sure that it isnt the threat of their over religeous christian dad beating the crap out of them or knowing that people around them think they are horrible that is eating them away and not the actual abortion?
You know what, do you share your worst part of yourself out in the open for everyone to judge and poke at ;HOWEVER , IN THERE DEPERSSION AND MOST DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIORS COME OUT. NOT IN THAT WE SPEAK OF THE ABORTION OUT IN THE OPEN ONLY THEY SPEAK OUT IN THERE LOWEST TIMES. TO THERE CLOSES FAIMLTY MEMBER,BUT ACTIVE IN THERE LIFE OF QUILT.MY SISTER AND COUSIN AND SISTER INLAW ALL ARE JACKED UP.THEY TRY DRUGS AND DOCTOR DRUGS TO GET RID OF THE THOUGHTS AND THE HURTS ITS A MESS.AND THE FAMILY ISN'T SAYING OR DOING ANYTHING TO AGGERVATE THE SITUATION. WE ARE HURTING WITH THEM
 
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Are there women who have abortions who regret them later? Yes. Of course. Some may have been pressured by financial problems, boyfriends, family members.

Another reason to support accessible and free pre-and-post natal care, another reason to support affordable adoption services, another reason to provide good extra-curricular activities for teenagers, another to improve public education in all districts in America, not just the rich ones...

In other words, another reason to have compassion and respect.
 
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You know what, do you share your worst part of yourself out in the open for everyone to judge and poke at ;HOWEVER , IN THERE DEPERSSION AND MOST DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIORS COME OUT. NOT IN THAT WE SPEAK OF THE ABORTION OUT IN THE OPEN ONLY THEY SPEAK OUT IN THERE LOWEST TIMES. TO THERE CLOSES FAIMLTY MEMBER,BUT ACTIVE IN THERE LIFE OF QUILT.MY SISTER AND COUSIN AND SISTER INLAW ALL ARE JACKED UP.THEY TRY DRUGS AND DOCTOR DRUGS TO GET RID OF THE THOUGHTS AND THE HURTS ITS A MESS.AND THE FAMILY ISN'T SAYING OR DOING ANYTHING TO AGGERVATE THE SITUATION. WE ARE HURTING WITH THEM
 
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I refuse to read the following text, for the following reason.

A full capitalised word generically means it has been shouted or is an acronym, considering it looks to be mostly shouting (due to no predefined acronyms). Also in any form of discussion shouting is disrespectful to the reciever unless the reciever needs the person to shout in order to hear them.

This is a text based forum and form of writing, thus the readers (recievers) do not require words to be shouted but rather to be written in a clear, consistent and easy to read manner.

In short the style of this text is disrespectful.
No sorry I'm not yelling and i need to change the battery's in the key board getting aggravatingly needless to say and I'm getting tired and lazy
 
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Even non-religious people, surely, must have a sense of guilt over taking the life of a tiny baby. Whatever you believe, it is still a life. That guilt is what causes the mental problems in most women after abortion.

It surprises me that humanists and atheists would be pro-abortion. I would have thought that it would be against their code of ethics.
 
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Even non-religious people, surely, must have a sense of guilt over taking the life of a tiny baby. Whatever you believe, it is still a life.
What happens if people do not believe it is a life; you´re argument falls in a hole.

I´m also yet to meet someone who was ¨pro-abortion¨ someone who honestly believes that the human race should not progress to the next generation.
 
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What happens if people do not believe it is a life; you´re argument falls in a hole.

I´m also yet to meet someone who was ¨pro-abortion¨ someone who honestly believes that the human race should not progress to the next generation.
You say that all those 21 week old fetuses that they kill.and the one thats wanted survives. You may not want to believe it is a human being ,but more and more are surviving to live.Babies naturally are born between 30-36 weeks and in Kansas they are killing right up to the last minute before they are born.The doctors are even starting to call them what they are( babies) its is a holocaust. and you aren't ignorant either.and we aren't GODS. To be able to say who lives and dies
 
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You say that all those 21 week old fetuses that they kill.and the one thats wanted survives. You may not want to believe it is a human being ,but more and more are surviving to live.
I think you read too much into my post, I did not say I didn´t believe fetuses were alive.

In fact I believe fetuses become ´alive´ much sooner then 21 weeks and it is when the mother has a connection with the fetus and an abortion will cause mental harm (which is no real set time period because pregnancies vary from mother to mother).

The point I was making is that the argument falls apart where it is based upon a personal belief.

Babies naturally are born between 30-36 weeks and in Kansas they are killing right up to the last minute before they are born.The doctors are even starting to call them what they are( babies) its is a holocaust. and you aren't ignorant either.
There is no excuse for partial birth abortions, as I said, I´m yet to find someone who honestly believes all current and future fetuses should be aborted, even against the mothers´ will.
 
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I think you read too much into my post, I did not say I didn´t believe fetuses were alive.

In fact I believe fetuses become ´alive´ much sooner then 21 weeks and it is when the mother has a connection with the fetus and an abortion will cause mental harm (which is no real set time period because pregnancies vary from mother to mother).

The point I was making is that the argument falls apart where it is based upon a personal belief.

There is no excuse for partial birth abortions, as I said, I´m yet to find someone who honestly believes all current and future fetuses should be aborted, even against the mothers´ will.
Well i do have a belief and children are a blessing from GOD and life is important for all prospects great or small and in the medical tech knowledge that we have today abortion isn't necessary for the mothers concern of health or the child's
 
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Two wrongs don't make womens pro choice right.The right to sex and the right to there body. To make it right to kill. You can't fixes some thing mentally once its broken. We reap what they sow

God has given us free will, even to sin.

Are you saying that we all, when we sin, become mentally ill, and that this is irreversible?

Mental illness is no different from any other kind of illness. Many people recover naturally. Some need medical intervention. Some few do not find recovery.

But what you describe is not mental illness at all. It is grief, and grief is a natural part of every single person's life. God allows us all to taste grief at some time in our lives, and does not spare even children from experiencing it at times.

If you have actually, as you describe, sat and listened to a woman cry about her abortion, and given her your support and love, then you are entitled to feel the grief that you feel, and which is in every word you write. But do not forget that God also feels grief at our sins, and still lets us have free will.

We do not have the right to do to others what God refuses to do to us. And if God hesitates to act in an unloving way, then we must also hesitate.

God's response to our sin is not punishment, but compassion. You find this in Christ, whenever he encounters a sinner. He never condemns, and never speaks harshly. He always brings Gods love, mercy and reconciliation. We must learn to do the same, and not to judge other people.

It is very easy to condemn a sin which you know you would not commit. Try to condemn with equal force those sins you commit every single day, and you will find rather more of a problem.
 
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Well i do have a belief and children are a blessing from GOD and life is important for all prospects great or small and in the medical tech knowledge that we have today abortion isn't necessary for the mothers concern of health or the child's

Even if all of that is true, why is it such an issue for you?

Do you not have your own sins to worry about, that you focus so much on other people's?
 
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