Nope there’s no truth to this at all. You’re just making a statement that is COMPLETELY BASED ON PERSONAL OPINION, NOT FACT. It is because of love and respect that couples have an equal partner framework. It makes absolutely zero sense that a man who dictates over his wife is exhibiting love and respect for her when he’s actually exhibiting the exact opposite towards her by viewing her opinions as being inferior to his.
That is a false dichotomy. A righteous man does not dictate over his wife. He is commanded to love her and give himself for her. That means get to work. God commanded or cursed the man in the garden of Eden to work the Earth by the sweat of his brow. That means he is responsible for the entire household. His wife is his helpmate not his slave
A woman has the right to expect the man to work for the provisions of the household
If he does work, which is as a servant leader, a man has a reasonable expectation that his wife be subject to him. This does not make her his punching bag, blowup doll, or beast of burden. She is to support him in his leadership role. This means she does not oppose him in public, she does not fight in front of the children. She shows respect for his authority.
She also has to be aware that there is a marital debt. When she is single, her sexuality is a gift which she gives to her husband in marriage. Prior to marriage, she may withhold it if the man is not worthy.
Once she takes the marriage vows, she must not refuse a reasonable request for the marital act under pain of mortal sin. It is not righteous to use sex as a weapon or as a means to manipulate her husband. He is her husband, not her puppet. The curse which God gave Eve was, your desire will be for your husband and he shall rule over you.
What are the consequences of disobeying God? Adam was cursed to work. If he refuses, then he becomes a crybaby that wants his wife to provide for him and while he does nothing and still has demands for sex. That is not a man, but a toddler that wants a mother, not a wife. A woman has no obligation to subject herself to this situation, but if she obeys God in being subject to her husband, her faith will be rewarded
What happens if a woman disobeys God? She becomes a demanding harpy who constantly belittles her husband unless he stays in line. The thing is, if you get a beta male that does stay in line with his wife’s demands, she grows bored of him and loses respect for him. This is why you see most divorces are initiated by women today
If a woman wants to dominate a man, he is under no obligation to have intercourse with her. As the word of God says, a man that has intercourse with a harlot is one with a harlot. He sins against his own body. He is married on paper but the woman is not behaving as a wife but is in rebellion
This teaching on marriage is not taught today but it is what the word of God teaches. People do not know it, and for lack of knowledge the people perish.
You don’t have to believe me, and your mind objects to this, but you just have to read the Bible to know it is true. We also have history as our guide.
In the history of civilization, without exception, once a society abandons chastity and engages in premarital intercourse and cohabitation, it collapses in three generations with a generation being approximately 33 years
Depending on the start time, we are in the second or third generation before societal
collapse. If we take 1930 and the Lambeth conference as the start, the we are well into the third generation. If we take 1967 and the summer of love as the start then we are toward the end of the second generation.
Why does this happen? Because children watch their parents. If parents rebel against God’s teaching, so will the children but to a greater degree as they will have no memory of obedience that their parents had
Don’t believe me? Open your eyes. Everything which Paul taught in Romans 1 is coming true. The ungodly left the natural use of the woman. That does not mean homosexuality. Homosexuality is the symptom, not the cause. Leaving the natural use of a woman is to fail to honor her as a wife and mother and begin to treat her as a pleasure outlet, which is contraception.
When sex is used for pure pleasure, God has said He will abandon them to all the lusts of their heart. Look in society today. We have homosexuality, porn, masturbation, bestiality, robot sex and now even pedophilia is gaining acceptance as minor attracted persons. This is sick, but it is real and happening right before our eyes.
Does this mean Jesus is about to return? Maybe, but we are on the verge of societal collapse based on all of world history. Do you still think contraception is no big deal?
I don’t know how, and you may think Jesus is gong to return. I can only warn you that if you are not obeying Him, you will not be happy when He comes. Not everyone that says to me Lord, Lord will enter the kingdom of Heaven. Those words are scary to me.
If what I have told you is not proof enough for you. What will it take?
A scholarly work is called Sex and Culture by
J.D. Unwin. He concludes when chastity and monogamy are abandoned, society will collapse
Collapse is well underway in our culture, and it was fueled by the wide scale acceptance of contraception in the 1960s. Will we be the exception to his research, or are we doomed? I don’t know , but the sins of modern society are enough to make Sodom and Gomorrah blush. Only repentance in dust and ashes as was in Nineveh would stay God’s wrath. I don’t think it is a good idea to continue to advocate for contraception