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God Doesn't Want Me To Know Him

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FireDragon76

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You are simply a lost person and all I can offer you is the Gospel and the truth about who God is.

Calling someone "lost" is spiritual abuse and manipulation. Not only that, it's arrogant and judgmental.

The fact that you are seeking is really good, though. If only you would rest in Christ...

And yet, you are just sowing more doubt in her mind with your words. You were the one that labelled her a lost person.
 
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I have, but until there's a response, I can't put aside my unbelief. Can a person just believe in something as a choice?

Yes, of course. It's called a leap of faith for a reason.

BTW, were you baptized? If yes, then there is no reason to doubt if you want to believe or not, because God has already promised in the waters of baptism to accept you. You do want to believe, and that is enough. Remember, Jesus said all we need is the faith the size of a mustard seed.

Doubt doesn't mean you don't believe. Often times doubt is necessary to know God in a deeper way.
 
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Which is not a good thing. Faith is not a virtue.
 
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If you can't get up in the morning and get on with life, you most certainly will not be able to pursue truth. That's my point. Faith can help somebody pursue truth. The idea that "faith is not a virtue" is just your opinion... one you gave no evidence to support.
 
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No, faith can obstruct their path to knowledge by keeping them committed to ideas that are either unfounded or demonstrably wrong. That's why it's not a virtue.
 
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No, faith can obstruct their path to knowledge by keeping them committed to ideas that are either unfounded or demonstrably wrong. That's why it's not a virtue.

I think we have completely different understandings of what faith means.
 
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I think we have completely different understandings of what faith means.
Given the context of this forum, I am using the term as a description for what I see practiced in religion. I am not using it in a broader, more general sense as a synonym for "confidence" or "trust."
 
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I am not using it in a broader, more general sense as a synonym for "confidence" or "trust."

That's the sense that Christians usually use the term, though. At least in the churches I have attended. Mere belief in God, in the sense of accepting him as a proposition to explain existence, isn't particularly virtuous. As St. James says in the Bible, demons believe God exists, but that "faith" causes fear in them.

When I say, I have faith in God... I mean that I trust that God is my savior. I put the ultimate concerns of my existence in his hands.
 
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That's the sense that Christians usually use the term, though. At least in the churches I have attended.
On what is their confidence based and is it sufficient to warrant the high (often extreme) level of confidence they have in the claims of their religion?
When I say, I have faith in God... I mean that I trust that God is my savior. I put the ultimate concerns of my existence in his hands. It doesn't mean I believe "God exists" as a brute fact.
But in order to trust that he is your saviour you must first believe that he exists. It wouldn't make sense for you to trust in something you don't believe to be real.
 
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On what is their confidence based, and is it sufficient to warrant the high (often extreme) level of confidence they have in the claims of their religion?

The Bible, just the mere existence of Christianity as a movement for 2,000 years, personal experience of God. People don't put their eggs in one basket, typically. Christianity is a worldview that many people find satisfying, despite your apparent lack of belief.

But in order to trust that he is your saviour you must first believe that he exists. It wouldn't make sense for you to trust in something you don't believe to be real.

I suppose you are talking about certainties. How much certainty a person requires seems to be up to the individual. I don't believe I need absolute certainty to have a measure of confidence. And again, a mustard seed of faith is all that my religion tells me is required.

Anyways, I am not interested in getting into a long debate about that stuff... I notice atheists have a tendency to drag Christians into apologetic debates where they do not belong (this is not an apologetics forum and I'm not interested in apologetics). I was merely trying to help out someone who was being badgered for their doubts. Calling somebody "lost" to try to emotionally manipulate them into a particular religious point of view is something that the form of Christianity I associate with does not endorse.
 
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Other religious groups also have ancient scriptures and personal testimonials, so this doesn't seem to distinguish Christianity from other religions that also lay claim to "the truth." What does the longevity of a belief, or the gratification it gives believers, have to do with its truth?
What if the level of confidence far exceeds what is warranted by the evidence? I've been told by many people on this forum that they would continue to believe even if their reasons for belief were shown to be inadequate and even if compelling contrary evidence came to light. In other words, they won't allow themselves to honestly reconsider their position.
 
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I don't have a problem with religious pluralism, in fact to some degree I accept it. I don't interpret Jesus well-known statement "I am the way, the truth, and the life" in John the way many Christians you are probably familiar with, do. In my opinion, it's a case of eisegesis used to further a particular religious exclusivism (the Christian writer Brian McLaren has talked about this in a few of his books).

It's only the logic of Aristotle that assumes that truth must be exclusive. But I'd question Artistotles assumptions.

In other words, they won't allow themselves to honestly reconsider their position.

I won't speak directly to this except to say its unwise to change something as personally meaningful at the drop of the hat just because contrary evidence appears to contradict something a person has believed.
 
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Given the abundance of mutually incompatible supernatural claims, what is needed is a way of distinguish the claims that have merit from those that do not. Faith doesn't give us a way to do this.
 
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I believe we share a great deal of common ground.
But also a great deal of incompatibility. Many claims are in direct opposition to one another, and faith doesn't help to resolve this situation. In fact, it seems to render it intractable.
 
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... its unwise to change something as personally meaningful at the drop of the hat just because contrary evidence appears to contradict something a person has believed.
So if something is very personally meaningful we should continue to believe it even if it is demonstrably false? This suggests that the personal import of a belief is more important than its veracity.
 
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