But translation is based on words, not speech. Seems your comments are related more to speech than written words. And the Koine grammar should be quite helpful as well. But yes, even with that, eisegesis is rampant.
Which was: "I'm uncomfortable with your phrase "beyond their control", as if the individual makes himself a "Christian", which obviously isn't true."
One of the arguments Calvinists bring up against "free will" is to infer that the person decides to be "born again", or "saved". That isn't even close to the free will view. Which is; man believes, and God saves, forgives, justifies, and regenerates, all at the exact same time. Man doesn't decide any of these things. Man believes that Christ saves. So their argument is flawed from the git-go.
Seems reasonable.
I don't see it that way, and here's why. When Adam rebelled, and the Lord went for a walk in the cool of the day, of course He knew that Adam was hiding and where he was hiding. So His question, "Adam, where are you?" meant "why are you where you are (hiding)?" iow, He wanted Adam to explain himself. So we see that Adam was fully able to respond to the Lord even in a fallen state. Further, from Rom 1:19,20 we know that God has revealed Himself to everyone, so that no one has an excuse, and Acts 17:26-27 tells us that God created mankind to seek Him. So God has already made possible for human beings to understand and respond to Him and His message. I can't find any support for the "regeneration before faith" teaching from Calvinism.
I view the "image" differently. Since God is "three in One", I believe that's the pattern from which He created mankind: body, soul, and spirit. When Adam sinned, he immediately died spiritually. I take that literally. And his body began to decay and die slowly physically. When a person puts their faith in Christ, the REgeneration or being born again refers to man's dead human spirit, which is revived and is necessary in order to worship God properly, from what Jesus told the Samaritan woman, in Jn 4:24.
1 Jn 3 becomes clear and easy to understand when one realizes that he was referring to living or functioning by means of the Holy Spirit through the human spirit regarding not sinning. iow, when one is "filled with the Spirit" or "walking by means of the Spirit", that one is functioning from their human spirit, where I believe the Holy Spirit actually resides in us. In that state, the believer cannot sin. Period. Only when the believer grieves (Eph 4:30) or quenches (1 Thess 5:19) the Spirit do they sin. In that state, they are "out of fellowship" with God, and functioning from their fallen numan nature.
It's either one or the other. Can't be both. I side with man being freely able to seek or reject God. Given that choice, those who do seek Him will find Him, just as Deut 4:29 says.
I agree with you. Since God is omniscient, He has always known who will respond and who will reject. From God's perspective, mankind isn't an experiment. But, from the perspective of angels, it just might be.
1 Tim 5:23 may be a clue.
But that doesn't negate a free choice. Remember, those who don't seek won't find. And those who don't seek, aren't paying attention. Have you ever done a search of "not paying attention" in the Bible? There are several verses in the OT that have that. So, they won't hear even when the call is made.
Good. Because He doesn't start out that way.
Of course there will be overlap between any evangelical view, and I too agree with some things and disagree with some things of Arminianism.
I go back to the basics: Acts 17:26-27 and Rom 1:19,20. Oh, and Rom 2:14,15 regarding the conscience that God has given to mankind, by which to understand the difference between right and wrong. Given those 3 things, God has already enabled everyone to understand the gospel message. The problem is that many just aren't paying attention. Either they don't care for, or don't like the message. Others do. I just don't see anything in Scripture that leads to the conclusion that God has to regenerate one before they will believe.
If that were true, then God ultimately is the One who chooses who will believe, but such an idea isn't found in Scripture.