I think the biggest mistake conventional apologetics makes is neglecting any talk of the need or use for God in addition arguments for him. Clifford Williams distinguishes these by calling the first arguments from need and the latter evidentialist arguments.
And I think anyone without a palpable sense of the usefulness of God, including how he satisfies certain needs (such as meaning or metameaning, comfort, etc.), will have no use for even considering evidentialist arguments seriously. There's just no need to, as there's no cash value at the end of the deal. You might as well be arguing on how many angels dance on a pinhead: if we knew a number here it wouldn't change anything at all, so for the vast majority of people it just doesn't matter.
And it's much worse than it looks here: for lots of atheists and agnostics, I'd bet that it's not just a lack of a realization of needs or uses for God, but that if God exists he creates more problems than he provides. I'm speaking pretty specifically of one thing: the doctrine of hell. It's like there's a sort of fundamentalist presupposition happening with many atheists, where if God exists then he would be a mean Hell-loving deity; therefore God can't possibly exist, and nowhere in this thinking are considerations that are more moderate conceptions of him, which basically what philosophy of religion is all about.
This doesn't just apply with thinking about God, but thinking about anything: unless we're incredibly disciplined (and few of us are to this point), we're going to have psychological biases which determine which arguments are (as William James said) alive or dead to us.
God is to most atheists a dead argument because he has no seen usefulness or satisfies any needs, and with many conceptions even creates more psychological problems than he resolves, notably an eternal Hell.
Response: "well, for me it's all about argument." Response to response: the only person for whom it's just about arguments is a person without a pulse; you have a pulse, ergo, you have other motivations than just evidentialist arguments.
And I think anyone without a palpable sense of the usefulness of God, including how he satisfies certain needs (such as meaning or metameaning, comfort, etc.), will have no use for even considering evidentialist arguments seriously. There's just no need to, as there's no cash value at the end of the deal. You might as well be arguing on how many angels dance on a pinhead: if we knew a number here it wouldn't change anything at all, so for the vast majority of people it just doesn't matter.
And it's much worse than it looks here: for lots of atheists and agnostics, I'd bet that it's not just a lack of a realization of needs or uses for God, but that if God exists he creates more problems than he provides. I'm speaking pretty specifically of one thing: the doctrine of hell. It's like there's a sort of fundamentalist presupposition happening with many atheists, where if God exists then he would be a mean Hell-loving deity; therefore God can't possibly exist, and nowhere in this thinking are considerations that are more moderate conceptions of him, which basically what philosophy of religion is all about.
This doesn't just apply with thinking about God, but thinking about anything: unless we're incredibly disciplined (and few of us are to this point), we're going to have psychological biases which determine which arguments are (as William James said) alive or dead to us.
God is to most atheists a dead argument because he has no seen usefulness or satisfies any needs, and with many conceptions even creates more psychological problems than he resolves, notably an eternal Hell.
Response: "well, for me it's all about argument." Response to response: the only person for whom it's just about arguments is a person without a pulse; you have a pulse, ergo, you have other motivations than just evidentialist arguments.