I want to give my friend money to pay for bible college fees. But I am contemplating which way I should give to her. Should I give to her anonymously or should I let myself be know?
Last semester I have given her money anonymously from the advice of Christian leaders. They had provided me with Matthew 6:1-4 to contemplate on. It states;
"But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret."
The reason for giving anonymously was so that all the Glory would go to God. I felt that was the right thing to do, so I proceded to give anonymously.
Unfortunately for me the person I gave the money to, thought it came from someone else. So all the glory didn't completely go to God. As my friendship with her fades, the friendship that she thought the money came from is continuing to blossom. Although we are still friends, I feel that she doesn't treat me very well. She is easily irritated by me, and is telling me how to do things better, which makes me feel unaccepted at times.
I care about her like family, and have no doubt in my heart in giving again. I prefer to give anonymously because I don't want her to feel indebted to me, but I'm afraid that I'll get hurt even more.
So what are your thoughts on giving?
Should I give again to this friend?
Votes for giving anonymously, and against giving anonymously?
Last semester I have given her money anonymously from the advice of Christian leaders. They had provided me with Matthew 6:1-4 to contemplate on. It states;
"But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret."
The reason for giving anonymously was so that all the Glory would go to God. I felt that was the right thing to do, so I proceded to give anonymously.
Unfortunately for me the person I gave the money to, thought it came from someone else. So all the glory didn't completely go to God. As my friendship with her fades, the friendship that she thought the money came from is continuing to blossom. Although we are still friends, I feel that she doesn't treat me very well. She is easily irritated by me, and is telling me how to do things better, which makes me feel unaccepted at times.
I care about her like family, and have no doubt in my heart in giving again. I prefer to give anonymously because I don't want her to feel indebted to me, but I'm afraid that I'll get hurt even more.
So what are your thoughts on giving?
Should I give again to this friend?
Votes for giving anonymously, and against giving anonymously?
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