"For certain men whose condemnation was written about long ago have secretly slipped in among you. They are godless men, who change the grace of our God into a license for immorality"
Like the immorality of a gay person pretending to be straight, or vice versa? Or the immorality of plucking out the speck from one's brother's eye before removing the log from one's own eye?
Look, the big "stumbling block" here, which divides the two camps, most likely, is on why homosexual acts were forbidden in the Scripture. One camp says it is because they are homosexual acts at all, the other says that it was about ritual cleanliness/pagan worship. There were many religious circles in the times of the writers of the Scriptures that practiced homosexual activity using STRAIGHT people to try to bring about the favor of pagan gods. This is why, the liberal camp says, homosexuality was condemned--it was seen as trying to gain the favor of a pagan god, which of course is idolatry, so the real issue, we claim, is idolatry, not homosexuality.
Homosexual acts were a symptom, not the cause, of the problem.
Now of course, nobody in either camp will be swayed from one side to the other. So here's an idea. Let's see if we can place enough faith and trust in God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit, to change the minds of those who are in error, whichever side that is.
Both sides, pray something like "Lord, if I am wrong, show me the truth in an undeniable way, please, so I may better serve You." Leave the other side out of that prayer. Only pray to have yourself corrected if you are wrong, and trust that any correction necessary will indeed come in an undeniable way, at some point, in God's perfect timing.
Can we do that? Will we?