Yeah, but...
That's your answer to everything.
If men provided more for women's emotional needs, imo, there'd be far fewer divorces.
I can get my own job to make my own money, feed myself, clothe myself, etc. Women have ALWAYS been able to do those things for themselves.
What we can't do on our own is provide ourselves emotional support.
So, if you'd just care for us by giving us what we need...
What you're saying is like someone saying to a starving person "I know you think it'd be taking care of you if I give you food, but it doesn't make me feel good about myself to give you food, I'd rather give you flowers. That way I'm taking care of you in the way that I want to take care of you, although it's not necessarily the care you really need."