In two posts, you have made two sweeping generalizations that would have made me consider paying my share of the check and walking out. I don't think you actually like women, you are too busy looking at them with disdain.
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Materialism is rampant in the west and that is what motivates every person I know that has been in a relationship to abandon them.
20 years without a single relationship will do that to you (i'm 32). Sorry this is what bitter looks like and it isn't pretty. I grew up in the hood and if you know anything about hip hop culture, then my generalization would make a lot more sense to you.
I bet you would be bitter too if you went as long as I have.
And no, I am NOT joking with you. I am cursed.
20 years without a single relationship will do that to you (i'm 32). .
Bitter men do not make good dates. Sorry, you can cry about how life isn't fair or you can do something about it.
You somehow believe that twelve year old boys are even capable of having a "relationship"? 32 years old isn't old. Lots of men get married in their 30's. You don't need a string of relationships to get married...you just need to find the right one.
You somehow believe that twelve year old boys are even capable of having a "relationship"? 32 years old isn't old. Lots of men get married in their 30's. You don't need a string of relationships to get married...you just need to find the right one.
Yes I hit puberty at 12 and lots of kids back then had girlfriends and yes I wanted one way back in '94.
Your right 32 isn't old, but 20 years of nothing will destroy ones hopes for the future. Like I said, everyone has their limits.
Your right 32 isn't old, but 20 years of nothing will destroy ones hopes for the future. Like I said, everyone has their limits.
If you think a 12 year old boy with a girlfriend is in a "relationship", then you still have a lot of maturing left to do before you are ready for one. Puberty and maturity do not mean the same thing.
So do you still live on the "wrong side of town" where you have no luck? At 32 years old, why haven't you moved? If you have moved, quit defining yourself by your past. There is plenty of affordable housing north of 8 Mile...it may not be Bloomfield Hills but you wouldn't want their kind of materialism either.
So you have given up on women and God, not sure how that is all of women kind's responsibility. Oh, except Japanese women...so why don't you move there...but I am not sure the hiphop culture that has enslaved you meshes so well with the one where "honor" is the most important virtue in a person.
You know, this is why I cant have straight honest conversations with people. How typical....
What is keeping you where you are? Can't you start to look for a job where you would like to be?
Yes I was (its called being brutally honest) and I am NOT asking for your pity. I am only trying to explain to you my background so you can an idea where I am coming from.
Women in America don't want a man that's puts their Christian walk above them and their children. Women in america don't understand faith to get the bills paid because the west is materialistic. Whether its on 8 mile or Bloomfield Hills. It is part and parcel in American culture.
We live in a relativistic society that is afraid of calling a spade a spade because that is how God sees truth and we have fallen way off the vine. You want to see materialism at its finest? Turn on the TV or go on the radio or drive down the street. It is destroying the west and people like me who stick out like a sore thumb get caught up in it all.
I'm frustrated about it because it is not an easy thing to live with. But don't you dare give me your pity. I don't get it from anyone else and I certainly don't expect it from you.
Finding work in my field is tough (IT support) when most jobs are outsourced to India. I have to fix computers on the side among other things to pay bills.
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