NO. That is the general theory. Look at the link where they admitted not knowing. In your explanation, you have the ridge doing something for untold ages. The reality could be that a rapid event in the past was the main factor, and subsequent spreading was just a comparatively minor recent after the fact event. You do not know.
Maybe. But merely relying on seismic waves is not sufficient evidence to reach such sweeping conclusions.
Or maybe a rapid event rammed the plates causing subduction, in which case, your conclusion would need revisiting.
Do we know what gravity is like down there? If so, what are the tests? Do we know what the consistency of the crust and mantle and rock was at the time of the rapid event? (or do you insist on a narrow view and looking at it only as if it was a great ages event?) Do we know that thermodynamics is at work there as it is on the surface, and if so, how? You would be best to say you just don't really know.