Gay wedding gift??

[Chrystal-J]

My niece is marrying a woman next summer. I'm not going to the wedding, but was wondering if I could send a small gift. I don't know what to do. Her mother (my sister) is always sending my son's kids things. I would be sending more for her than anything.

My other niece is still deep into Satan worship. I feel like I'm on a sinking ship.

 

[WarriorAngel]

My niece is marrying a woman next summer. I'm not going to the wedding, but was wondering if I could send a small gift. I don't know what to do. Her mother (my sister) is always sending my son's kids things. I would be sending more for her than anything.

My other niece is still deep into Satan worship. I feel like I'm on a sinking ship.

Simple faith.

I would speak to the priest about this question.
Personally, I do not know the answer. But put your heart and faith into your prayers.

 

[Michie]

My niece is marrying a woman next summer. I'm not going to the wedding, but was wondering if I could send a small gift. I don't know what to do. Her mother (my sister) is always sending my son's kids things. I would be sending more for her than anything.

My other niece is still deep into Satan worship. I feel like I'm on a sinking ship.

A Bible?? Lol!

Just send a card with some cash.

 

[Chrystal-J]

A Bible?? Lol!

Just send a card with some cash.

I actually like the biblical idea. But may end up going with the cash. I can't bring myself to send a "congratulations" card, maybe just a blank one.

 

[Chrystal-J]

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Simple faith.

I would speak to the priest about this question.
Personally, I do not know the answer. But put your heart and faith into your prayers.

Speaking with a priest is a great idea!

 

[FaithT]

Speaking with a priest is a great idea!

I agree

 

[RileyG]

Speak with a priest. I personally wouldn’t give her a gift, just cash.

 

[Lady Bug]

I wouldn't want to be in your shoes.

One thing though, not giving her anything won't change the wedding from happening, but you're probably worried about the gift implying approval.

 

[Chrystal-J]

I wouldn't want to be in your shoes.

One thing though, not giving her anything won't change the wedding from happening, but you're probably worried about the gift implying approval.

Yes, I am worried that it will appear that I'm approving of this marriage if I send a gift. My sister isn't too thrilled about this wedding, but her daughter is in her 30's and she can't really say or do anything about it.

 

[RileyG]

Yes, I am worried that it will appear that I'm approving of this marriage if I send a gift. My sister isn't too thrilled about this wedding, but her daughter is in her 30's and she can't really say or do anything about it.

Is your sister even Christian?

 

[Chrystal-J]

Is your sister even Christian?

She married a Jewish man and converted to Judaism.

 

[RileyG]

She married a Jewish man and converted to Judaism.

If she is an Orthodox Jew, I can see why she would oppose it.

 

[Chrystal-J]

If she is an Orthodox Jew, I can see why she would oppose it.

She recently converted, but not sure which sect.

 

[RileyG]

She recently converted, but not sure which sect.

I think reform and conservative are fine with LGBT. Orthodox- not so much.

 

[Cosmic Charlie]

My niece is marrying a woman next summer. I'm not going to the wedding, but was wondering if I could send a small gift. I don't know what to do. Her mother (my sister) is always sending my son's kids things. I would be sending more for her than anything.

My other niece is still deep into Satan worship. I feel like I'm on a sinking ship.

Well, candlesticks always make a nice gift....

or some scented votives.

It's two women so......

{Didn't see that see was Jewish}

How about a Mezuzah ? It's nice and a direct analog of a holy water font at the door.

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