Hi S Girl,
I had this friend, her and I hit it off, confided in each other, and she talked to me daily.
That is how a friendship should be.
We had a lot of laughs so I didn't understand why she sent me this IM. Actually it was sent by mistake.
Wow, our Lord Jesus Christ at work!
It was bad-mouthing me to another friend.
Yep, backbiting and gossiping and bad-mouthing is part and parcel of life.
She tried to make excuses instead of just admitting she was wrong.
That's life my dear sister.
She did this to me before, I could tell she lied to me, we both knew it but she just tried to say it was my fault. LONG STORY
Good old, "Blame Game"!
My thing is, I'm so angry at her.
His Word says not to let the sun set on anger!
I try to understand why she did what she did and I can't. I want to get past this and I pray a lot about it, but it just eats me.
The devil did it!
Just pray this prayer:
Heavenly Father, I come to You through our Lord Jesus Christ, and I now confess my sin of anger and bitterness that I have toward my friend for what she did to me. I now forgive my friend for what she has said about me, I love her, and I forgive myself for feeling this way. Forgive me Lord Jesus Christ, in Jesus' Name.
It kills me that she thinks she did nothing wrong.
Pride kills a lot of people. So take back those words that you have spoke over yourself, by saying those words, "it kills me".
Pray this prayer:
Heavenly Father, I come You through our Lord Jesus Christ, and I confess that sin of self-cursing and I now take back those words that I have spoken over myself, in Jesus' Name.
Satan, I cut off all power from your and your forces now, by the power of our Almighty God, our Lord Jesus Christ, in Jesus' Name.
Now carry on as if nothings has happened. Lover her, and bless her as you are required to do as a believer in our Lord Jesus Christ.
I just wish she'd admit it.
Your friend is possibly embarrassed by getting caught out. And she is most probably a proud person as well.
A proud person will never say: I am wrong, I am sorry, Please forgive me, I forgive you, and I love you.
Do you find those words easy to say?
But for the time being I thought it was best to cut her out of my life.
Possibley, but remember the parable about the lost sheep, and the shephered went out searching for that one lost sheep, she is lost!
I'm beginning to see she is not a good person - well I do see that.
Well, we most probably all started off like your friend!
I don't want her in my life.
That is you choice and decision, but remember one thing maybe our Lord Jesus Christ is testing you here?
I just want to not hate and I fear seeing her in public,
Another spoken word of "hate" and "fear". You are a believer in our Lord JEsus Christ, and you do not hate anyone, nor do you fear anything.
Take back those thoughts, you have given Satan and his forces legal right to backbite, gossip, and badmouth you.
I don't want her to bother me.
Your choice and your decision!
I don't know what she'd do. I just keep hoping she has an ounce of maturity.
My dear sister, now please don't think that I am being rude, or sarcastic, but I hear this all the time day in day out.
Our walk is about forgiveness and love, that are HIS Commandments.
So tell you friend how you feel and tell her that you forgive her and that you love her. And you want to give her another chance.
But remember that you trust our Lord Jesus Christ only and have no confidence in man or this woman.
But, this is all up to you. I would give her another chance and be firm and tell her straight.
But again, that is up to you.
But, at least pray those prayers.
Love in Christ