Friends & Relationship Prob??

[GodsGirl37]

Is it wrong for a girlfriend to ask her boyfriend of 2 years to not be friends with a female that he recently met (about 4 months) that has openly expressed she has feelings for him, and hangs around him a lot. She is not a Christian. I am not sure if it being selfish on my part or jealousy. I want him to have his friends but I am uncomfortable with her, especially when we have an argument and he runs to her. If she did not have feelings for him it would not bother me but I am not sure that I can trust her and this has put a strain on our relationship. We were talking about marriage but I am not so sure now, especially since he spends a lot of time with her, one on one, although he denies having feelings for her, but he does consider her to be one of his good friends. Is it wrong for me to ask him to not spend so much time with her especially being alone with her??

 

[fishstix]

Well, it isn't wrong for you to talk it over with him and let him know why you are concerned. However it might be going to far to tell him he can't be friends with her at all.

 

[Beauty4Ashes]

talk to him about it and explain how you feel and why you feel taht way and ask him what he would do if you were in the same situation with another guy who expressed interest in you....

 

[wvmtnkid]

I agree with talking with him about why it concerns you and how it makes you feel. I think that forbidding him to be friends with her would make matters worse. It might actually cause their friendship to be stronger. Just as you would like him to consider your feelings about him talking to someone else other than you, how would you feel if he told you not to spend time with one of your friends? I can understand where this would make you feel uncomfortable, so I think you have the right to talk to him about it and express your concerns to him.