? Yes, you decide, and we call that free will.
I keep saying (and you keep ignoring) that a lack of free will doesn't preclude making choices. It impacts on
why you made the choice.
One's free will to choose the good can be enhanced by the threat of punishment but then the desire to do good is merely coerced. The free will to do evil is not eliminated. Else we would have no one in prison.
The punishment is actually there to coerce some people. All people think that stealing is wrong. The guy that breaks into your house knows that as a fact. But if he's psychologically unable to empathise and really doesn't care about you having the property stolen then we need to discourage his behaviour.
If he gets caught then it's a case for rehabilitation. Have him in a group discussion with people who have been robbed. Let them explain to him what it feels like. If he has a drug problem then get him clean. If he has a mental problem, then treat it. Let's try to get him to realise the result of his actions. If he doesn't change, or can't, then if he keeps stealing and keeps getting caught then we'll keep locking him up.
The rest of your post seems to me to merely beg the question? The possibility of rehabilitation, a freely willed change in one's affection, attitude and behavior, presumes a free will.
No, it doesn't. You can't decide 'today I'm going to realise that what I'm doing causes distress to people so I'm going to stop'. You either are convinced or you're not. You either believe it or you don't. You can
realise that something is true. But you can't
decide to believe it.
Emotions, the unwilled movements of one's soul, can rule those who have not yet the discipline to pass those emotions by their intellect before acting upon them.
That's right. Someone will have an ability to do something whereas someone else will not. But you can't decide to have that ability. If you happen to have the discipline to act in a particular way then that's the way you are built. And you have to accept that others are not built the same way. Through no fault of their own.
Physical or external conditions may constrain one's ability to choose freely but not eliminate it.
They dictate how you react.
If your mother was stressed when she was carrrying you because she lost her job, was a single mother and couldn't afford the rent, then your brain development would be seriously compromised. Especially the frontal cortex.
Maternal influences on fetal brain development: The role of nutrition, infection and stress, and the potential for intergenerational consequences
And if you grew up in an abusive household and were subject to violence then that really messes with your amygdala, which prompts your flight or fight reactions. Plus:
Sensitive periods of amygdala development: The role of maltreatment in preadolescence
'Childhood adversity is a major risk factor for psychopathology associated with 30–70% of the population attributable risk fraction for depression, suicide attempts, anxiety disorders and substance abuse...'
You didn't select your parents. Or where you grew up. You didn't select a mother who didn't drink or smoke or use drugs when you were conceived. You didn't choose to avoid trauma. Neither did the guy who broke into your house. You got lucky. He didn't. We can't blame him for how he turned out. But we can try to address his problems so he has better options. So he can make better decisions.
My place was broken into a while back. Emotionally, I'd want the guy punished because I want retribution. It's an unavoidable instinct. The reptilian part of my brain demands it. But it's not a rational reaction.