SumTinWong
Living with BPD
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God is our Father, we would all agree with that (except maybe you folks who are not sure he is the Father of people outside your denomination) right?
When you were a kid, when you screwed up, did you have to say I am sorry to your dad? Obviously if he was worth his salt he may have remained mad for awhile but he did forgive you in the end.
Did you ever hurt your dad and not say you were sorry? I have, and it took me a long time before I actually tried to say it and mean it to my own dad. Come to find out he forgave me a long time ago, and had left all the bitterness back there. My asking for forgiveness helped guide our relationship back to where it belonged, and did heal many wounds on both sides, and even though we are not the best of pals, we have buried the past and have moved on.
I mention this for the reason, that I think that God does forgive us, even when we do not ask for forgiveness, but that being said, I do not want to be the one who severs or hampers that relationship by not asking him to forgive me. He isn't my buddy, or my pal, He is my God, and my Father. I owe him the respect by saying, Father, I have sinned against you, will you please forgive me?
I don't know where this whole thing came from that we do not have to ask Him for forgiveness. Why would Jesus teach us to ask for forgiveness as we have forgiven others if He didn't mean it??
When you were a kid, when you screwed up, did you have to say I am sorry to your dad? Obviously if he was worth his salt he may have remained mad for awhile but he did forgive you in the end.
Did you ever hurt your dad and not say you were sorry? I have, and it took me a long time before I actually tried to say it and mean it to my own dad. Come to find out he forgave me a long time ago, and had left all the bitterness back there. My asking for forgiveness helped guide our relationship back to where it belonged, and did heal many wounds on both sides, and even though we are not the best of pals, we have buried the past and have moved on.
I mention this for the reason, that I think that God does forgive us, even when we do not ask for forgiveness, but that being said, I do not want to be the one who severs or hampers that relationship by not asking him to forgive me. He isn't my buddy, or my pal, He is my God, and my Father. I owe him the respect by saying, Father, I have sinned against you, will you please forgive me?
I don't know where this whole thing came from that we do not have to ask Him for forgiveness. Why would Jesus teach us to ask for forgiveness as we have forgiven others if He didn't mean it??
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