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Never talked about testing them. I was instead working off the basis it was already known (say the couple had a few miscarriages, and so they decided to see if something was wrong), and that once it was known, should the birth control be forced.
Oh, and of course, forced birth control would be a sentence of celibacy for Catholics.
Sterilization is a pretty effective way of preventing pregnancies. You birth 2 kids, *snip snip*. Want more? Here's the phone number of an orphanage.
Yeah and what if the kids die? Sorry charlie, you shot your two loads.You're advocating forced surgery? It's a life-threatening procedure for women.
Would men also be sterilised after fathering two children? What if they remarry?
You're advocating forced surgery? It's a life-threatening procedure for women.
Would men also be sterilised after fathering two children? What if they remarry?
Pretty radical, huh? Although it's not any more life threatening than geting your wisdom teeth pulled out.
I realy don't care either way if men are steralized. Sure, for the sake of it, let's have them steralized as well. The thing is that women are the critial sex. You can steralize 99% of males in a population and that 1% has the ability to empregnate all the females in one heat cycle. (1 month) That's why it must be the women that get steralized.
What if they remarry? What if a woman remarries 10 times? Will she have a child with every husband? That's at least 10 kids! No, after 2 births, steralization. Let's say it's an added incentive to marry a really good guy.![]()
Not necessarily. For catholics, the use of birth control (in a non-abstinent situation) is a mortal sin, but you can only commit a mortal sin when it's grave matter, committed with full knowledge, and committed in full freedom. When someone forces birth control on a catholic, that isn't full freedom. So it would not be a mortal sin for a catholic to continue to have sex with their spouse. After all, they didn't choose to use birth control.Oh, and of course, forced birth control would be a sentence of celibacy for Catholics.
So you can keep sinning as long as you're truly sorry?
Sounds like a good deal to me.
).Well, that's not how they explain it.
As I said, in case of forced birth control, the one who forces it on them would be the one sinning, not the catholic couple that is forced - so long as they would not use birth control if they weren't forced. So it's not a continuation of sin for them, as there is no sin - they are not free to do otherwise.
In case of (voluntary) sterilization, there isn't really a continuation of sin, either, IF the couple is truly sorry. The harm is done and can't be undone (reversals are often unsuccessful, and the church doesn't insist on them); they would not use (non-permanent) birth control if they repented, and would wish they had not had the surgery done. The sin is forgiven. They don't get a new sterilization procedure (sin) done every time they have sex, so there is no continuation of sin (I hope I made myself clear here!).
(Because it's not the sex that is the sin, but the use of birth control.)
You are mistaken about the comparative risks of dentistry and hysterectomy. Hysterectomy requires a general anaesthetic, which is always more risky than a local one. Also, see below.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hysterectomy#Risks_and_side_effects
Yes, my dentist would like to remove my wisdom teeth, but as long as I don't give him permission, he's not allowed to. And should not be allowed to.Nevertheless, you are not legally required to have your wisdom teeth removed. Any surgical procedure carries risks, and I think it would be a very bad idea to force people to undergo one.