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For females: What do you find most attractive in a photo?

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Lets just say for arguments sake a guy puts a profile picture on facebook or something like that. This guy is average looking, you do not know him at all.

What is the most attractive thing to you that he could be doing in that photo (besides being shirtless or reading the bible, haha).

What types of photos of men do you find attractive? Face or body? What are they doing in the photo? Smiling or not, looking at the camera or not, etc.

If you absolutely cannot decide, then as a last resort, just think of the most attractive male you've ever seen in a photo and describe what he was doing in it.
 

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^_^
 
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This chick doesn't dig scars. Plus, that one's got buck teeth and mites. :p^_^

And I also agree that a man's either got it or not. It doesn't matter what he's posing like in a picture.
Alright that's not necessarily true. Laying atop a pile of gold bricks may get my attention.
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Curious, are you planning to heed the words of what women say to attempt to have more attractive photos? Does that really make you happy? Knowing that women find your photos attractive? Just be yourself man.
Wise words, Z.
 
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I think it varies.
Though I usually find semi-nude/provocotive photos of anyone to be utterly stupid, I have found any variety of photos to be nice or bad and it could be the same basic setting... perhaps it is the level of comfort in the situation the person portrays.
 
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What is the most attractive thing to you that he could be doing in that photo (besides being shirtless or reading the bible, haha).
tumblr_mfnp41D6Ra1qzkewio1_500.jpg

(but really, they should have a beard).

What types of photos of men do you find attractive? Face or body? What are they doing in the photo? Smiling or not, looking at the camera or not, etc.
Everything is irrelevant unless a beard is present.

If you absolutely cannot decide, then as a last resort, just think of the most attractive male you've ever seen in a photo and describe what he was doing in it.
He had a beard, and an axe. That's all I need.


This post is actually rather serious, but unfortunately not helpful.
 
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That's a difficult question. Most attractive thing he could be doing? Smiling, I guess? I guess I'm ok with shirtless pics, if the guy is muscled & at the beach or something but in most cases he's showing off or likes himself too much which is annoying. I guess I like face & body both ... I like someone who keeps themselves in order. I really don't like those guys who snap a million pics in front their bathroom mirror or try to impress people by trying too hard. Smiling is nice & so is looking at the camera. If I had to think of an attractive male, I think Ben Whishaw is pretty attractive. He's an actor. He's good looking when he doesn't have a moustache & gotee & he has a nice smile though he rarely shows teeth.
 
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a shirtless picture says to me = this guy is full of himself and highly insecure so he needs to seek the approval of others.

A picture with a Bible says to me = "look at me! I'm super Christian!"

yes. I'm a little cynical.


Buuuut... anydoodle... Are you planning to use facebook as a means to pick up women? because um.. that alone would turn me off. Creepiest message I ever got on facebook was from a guy I never met or talked to in my life PMing me to tell me he thought I was beautiful.

Just find a picture you like. Don't worry what women find attractive in a man. What attracts one woman will not attract another, so its pointless anyway to try and find one picture that will be universally appealing to all or most women.
 
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a shirtless picture says to me = this guy is full of himself and highly insecure so he needs to seek the approval of others.

A picture with a Bible says to me = "look at me! I'm super Christian!"

yes. I'm a little cynical.


Buuuut... anydoodle... Are you planning to use facebook as a means to pick up women? because um.. that alone would turn me off. Creepiest message I ever got on facebook was from a guy I never met or talked to in my life PMing me to tell me he thought I was beautiful.

Just find a picture you like. Don't worry what women find attractive in a man. What attracts one woman will not attract another, so its pointless anyway to try and find one picture that will be universally appealing to all or most women.
It sounds like everything turns you off :p

"Gah! This person complimenting me on my looks? Such a turn off..." ^_^
 
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It sounds like everything turns you off :p

"Gah! This person complimenting me on my looks? Such a turn off..." ^_^


its not a turn-off to get a compliment on my looks. If the right guy says that, I'm putty in his hands ;)

If a total stranger starts hitting on me, especially online, yeah... thats not something I'm going to respond to.
 
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I think it varies.
Though I usually find semi-nude/provocotive photos of anyone to be utterly stupid, I have found any variety of photos to be nice or bad and it could be the same basic setting... perhaps it is the level of comfort in the situation the person portrays.

Oh, now i have to go and remove the shirtless bible reading pic lol.
 
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