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Hey everyone,
I have a few questions, some practical, and some moral. We just got back from visiting some family for the holidays, and they have a two-week-old baby. So, she was nine days old when we got there for the visit. Anyway, the baby slept probably 22 hours a day (this is not an exaggeration) including sleeping through the night. I commented on this, because at that age our son never slept for more than 90 minutes at a stretch, and ate every 2.5 hours or so. Come to find out, they have their baby on a schedule and wait at least five hours between feedings. When she does eat, she eats five ounces at a time. I have no reference point for this, as our son was breast fed primarily at that age, but I know that he was probably four months old before he would eat five ounces at a feeding.
So my question is, do you all think there is significant potential for long-term harm if a baby is fed like that? Is her eating that much a coping mechanism, and if so will it allow her to get the nutrition she needs? I guess I freak out about this stuff because my son failed to thrive as a newborn (not because of scheduled feedings, though--I had milk supply issues) and now I can't stand the thought of him, or any baby, being hungry.
If there is the potential for damage from that schedule, is it great enough to say something? I mean, I don't want to interfere, but I don't want the kid to be disabled or something for her whole life because I was worried about being polite. What do you think? What would you do?
I have a few questions, some practical, and some moral. We just got back from visiting some family for the holidays, and they have a two-week-old baby. So, she was nine days old when we got there for the visit. Anyway, the baby slept probably 22 hours a day (this is not an exaggeration) including sleeping through the night. I commented on this, because at that age our son never slept for more than 90 minutes at a stretch, and ate every 2.5 hours or so. Come to find out, they have their baby on a schedule and wait at least five hours between feedings. When she does eat, she eats five ounces at a time. I have no reference point for this, as our son was breast fed primarily at that age, but I know that he was probably four months old before he would eat five ounces at a feeding.
So my question is, do you all think there is significant potential for long-term harm if a baby is fed like that? Is her eating that much a coping mechanism, and if so will it allow her to get the nutrition she needs? I guess I freak out about this stuff because my son failed to thrive as a newborn (not because of scheduled feedings, though--I had milk supply issues) and now I can't stand the thought of him, or any baby, being hungry.
If there is the potential for damage from that schedule, is it great enough to say something? I mean, I don't want to interfere, but I don't want the kid to be disabled or something for her whole life because I was worried about being polite. What do you think? What would you do?