- Nov 6, 2022
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Wow,where to start.
I'm married for a long time now. And most wives can go to their husband for support and advice. But not me. He's critical. Judgemental. Not supportive in that sense of the word. His support is criticism, judgement,blame, etc...
Not long ago I lost the inherited family business through no fault of our own.
Now, we end up working for others and making in a two week pay period what we would have made in a couple of hours before.
That takes some getting use to let me tell you.
So tonight I'm at my second job, which I hate. Rude people, old equipment that's unreliable and makes for compromised customer service, etc....
I have a co-worker that is all the sudden hostile and ignores me when I try to talk to her. And being o don't have many people to talk to it bothered me that the environment was hostile.
So I asked her, are you going to talk to me?
After I'd tried to talk to her earlier and was rebuffed.
Long story short, no.
What do you want me to say? I don't have to talk to you.
That was it. I don't need a hostile neighbor at work so that I feel ignored at work the way I am at home.
So I go in the back and tell the managers there I just quit. And why.
Sounds petty, immature. My manager asked, so you're leaving,quitting,because she doesn't want to talk to you?
No,there was more to it than that,but that was part of it.
And it helped that she started to express to the manager the same hostility as she'd shown me. She did lie about one thing,and I noted that as a damn lie.
To which she responded,don't say damn to me!
Um ,what? You're hostile, ignore my existence overnight after being a mentor, and the D word triggers you?
I guess I'm whining trying to get support for my decision to leave my shift early. And why. Likely lost the job,but I hate it anyway. Pay is not commensurate with the stress.
I dunno. I feel like I'm going to be seen as an immature idiot.
But really,maybe, I'm just not happy and this is a symptom.
Any advice helps. I'm off for the next two days if I'd have worked the full shift. Who knows what tomorrow will bring when the senior managers get wind.
I do have another job that pays more. So I'm not compromised as far as being able to pay my bills.
Thank you for reading this.
God bless.
Edited to fix typos
I'm married for a long time now. And most wives can go to their husband for support and advice. But not me. He's critical. Judgemental. Not supportive in that sense of the word. His support is criticism, judgement,blame, etc...
Not long ago I lost the inherited family business through no fault of our own.
Now, we end up working for others and making in a two week pay period what we would have made in a couple of hours before.
That takes some getting use to let me tell you.
So tonight I'm at my second job, which I hate. Rude people, old equipment that's unreliable and makes for compromised customer service, etc....
I have a co-worker that is all the sudden hostile and ignores me when I try to talk to her. And being o don't have many people to talk to it bothered me that the environment was hostile.
So I asked her, are you going to talk to me?
After I'd tried to talk to her earlier and was rebuffed.
Long story short, no.
What do you want me to say? I don't have to talk to you.
That was it. I don't need a hostile neighbor at work so that I feel ignored at work the way I am at home.
So I go in the back and tell the managers there I just quit. And why.
Sounds petty, immature. My manager asked, so you're leaving,quitting,because she doesn't want to talk to you?
No,there was more to it than that,but that was part of it.
And it helped that she started to express to the manager the same hostility as she'd shown me. She did lie about one thing,and I noted that as a damn lie.
To which she responded,don't say damn to me!
Um ,what? You're hostile, ignore my existence overnight after being a mentor, and the D word triggers you?
I guess I'm whining trying to get support for my decision to leave my shift early. And why. Likely lost the job,but I hate it anyway. Pay is not commensurate with the stress.
I dunno. I feel like I'm going to be seen as an immature idiot.
But really,maybe, I'm just not happy and this is a symptom.
Any advice helps. I'm off for the next two days if I'd have worked the full shift. Who knows what tomorrow will bring when the senior managers get wind.
I do have another job that pays more. So I'm not compromised as far as being able to pay my bills.
Thank you for reading this.
God bless.
Edited to fix typos
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