First Date Tips

[goat37]

well guys..


I had a 3 hour convo with her tonight... and I think she is more looking forward to tomorrow night than I am. She was telling me about how kittenish she is, then she purred at me.

Told me that her idea of an perfect evening would be to cuddle up on the couch with me, drink margaritas, and watch House of 1000 Corpses...

Perfect.... just perfect....

 

[SmEaGoL!]

Just be yourself naturally.

 

[Tuffguy]

I found that on that site. I disagree with that one in part, because if a girl can't take a joke that I find funny, then it's probably not going to work out.

I think that most people to things like this to 'test' their date, so that they will know if they will probably get along well in the future or not.


That seemed like a pretty cool website though. Maybe I'll check it out more later!

I do the same thing. I joke about sensitive stuff to see where she stands. If she disagrees and backs down,,shes sure not compatable w/me.

 

[FaithfulServant]

Gost37, Don't forget to update us on how the evening went

 

[goat37]

Alrightey folks - I had the date last night... and I am gonna need some advice here. Women's input would be good too...


First of all - I would like to point out that this girl is hands down the single most interesting/intruiguing person I have met in my entire life. Never have I been so captivated by a single person and what they had to say.

I had a feeling it would happen, and it did... I spent most of the time just shutting up and letting her talk. I was just so interested, I kept asking questions about her and what she likes, and listening to her stories.... I won't go into detail here, because I think it would freak many of you out.

Anyway... we had first met, and then she gave me her phone number and email... so we had talked on the phone and IM'd quite a bit just getting to know each other before the date... and she seemed very flirty and aggressive towards me...
But when we were together, it seemed like she got a little shy around me... kinda held back a little. She was very open and honest but seemed to really care what I thought about her (which i wouldn't expect out of someone like her, since she says she doesn't care what people think about her), but on the same token acted a little distant.

Conversation was great... never ran out of topics and we share a LOT of common interests... everything from music, to movies, to food, to thoughts about life etc...

After the movie (which was her idea... but she was FAR more interesting than any movie) she took me to show me where Marilyn Manson was going to be playing next week... then I drove her back to her parents house and she invited me in to show me her knife collection and see her kitty.
We ended up talking for another 2 hours or so.

She listens to a lot of bands that I had never heard, and so she loaned me her favorite cd and said that she never loans that cd to anyone... and said that she would talk to me today.

Overall... I am really stoked on her, but I can't really guage how she feels about me. Like... it seems like she might be kind of interested... but on the other, she was so flirty and aggressive toward me before the date, and then on it she kinda got shy on me... and I had a tough time reading her. She wouldn't get too close to me, you know?

But obviously I have to see her again to give her back her cd.... ???

Oy... I am confused

 

[goat37]

Well... I just talked to her again for a little while (she got ahold of me).

She said that she had a lot of fun last night, and is so happy to hear that I have fallen in love with the cd that she is letting me borrow. She was also flattered that I was so interested in her, and said that if I liked what I had heard so far... then I am in for a great time because she didn't even get to the 'good stuff'.

But again... not as aggressive as she originally was... hmm...

I just don't really quite know what to think...

 

[Tuffguy]

This whole situation seems to have a weird vibe to it man. I think you guys are in for a sort sexual fling and then will go your separate ways. My suggestion is to abort the mission now.